To all you single ladies (and gentlemen) reading this right now, we get it.
Instead of moping about not having that special someone, here are a few ways you can embrace single land:
1. Watch a corny/cheesy romantic movie
Sometimes, sappy and cheesy is the only way to go to avoid a lack luster love life. Some movies on Netflix that fit this bill include “The Titanic”, “Bridget Jones’ Diary,” “Love Actually,” and “10 Things I Hate About You.” If you're not into romance, there are plenty of other genres out there that can do the job just as well. You can also detach from reality by watching some mindless TV (what I really mean is, that this is the perfect opportunity to catch up on The Bachelor).
2. Exercise; get your blood pumping and the endorphins flowing
They call it a “runner’s high” for a reason. Being active has been proven to improve one’s mood, lower stress, clear up complexion...the list goes on. It could also help give you the boost of confidence and accomplishment that you’ve been looking for today.
3. Hit the town; explore your town/city
No matter if you've just moved to a new city, or lived in the same area for several years it's always a breath of fresh air to check out what's going on down in town. Depending on where you live, the possibilities may not be endless, but there's usually something interesting happening, especially during evening or nighttime hours. Visit your favorite restaurant, go out to the movies, check out that new cute bookstore perhaps? Just the liberation and the open space in a larger community can do wonders for a hurting heart or mind.
4. Go out with your friends
There’s nothing like the rush you get from going out with your closest friends. They can help distract you from a lacking love life. Like any relationship, friendship is super important and rewarding. Many times those whom you befriend in your high school and college days are with you for life.
5. Treat yo’self... (to your favorite dish)
You don’t have to follow the rules today if your heart isn't in it. You do deserve that oh-so-tempting box of chocolates or that pasta dish that’s been calling your name. If you’re not feeling takeout or going out to eat, cooking can be a wonderful way to destress. Check out Pinterest for some tasty recipes!
6. Talk to your family or friends that are back home
As down as you may be, your loved ones back home are probably really missing you right now too. Show them some love by calling, texting, or FaceTiming. And yes, your beloved dog/cat/fish/other pet counts as family, too.
7. Go see “Fifty Shades Darker”
You know those movies that are so outrageous that they turn out to be good? This might be just the ticket. Depending on your level of interest, maybe take a shot before you go. Or ten.
8. Take a more positive approach to being single
It’s only too easy to think about all the negatives of being single on a day especially made for lovers. Still, there are some definite perks to not being in a committed relationship, such as the obvious freedom, excitement, and being able to invest more time in other areas of your life.
9. Give a gift to someone you care about
Gift-giving is one of the best feelings in the world. Just imagine your loved one’s face lighting up in joy after realizing you did something thoughtful for them. It doesn’t need to be expensive (we all understand the financial struggle of being a college student). If you’re running low on cash, maybe making something like a card or writing a nice note is a better way to go.
10. Pamper yourself with some me-time
Listening to your favorite music, taking a nice bubble bath (maybe even buy one of those bath bombs you’ve always been meaning to get), doodling, reading your favorite book, painting your nails, whatever floats your boat. When you’re swept up in the business of daily life, it’s easy to forget about taking some necessary time for yourself.
11. Try something you’ve never got around to trying in the past
Whether it be as adventurous as rock climbing, or as simple as starting a new show or joining a new club, this can be the perfect distraction tool. Get a friend or two to come along. Who knows? By trying something new you may find yourself a new passion.
