Having an older sibling can be stressful from time to time, but it definitely has its advantages. Growing up with a sister that was about two years older than me was never easy. We always clashed heads and it sometimes got to the point where our fighting got so bad, that our parents couldn't even bring us out at the same time. But as we got older, the fighting seemed to stop, and it made me realize that have an older sibling, really isn't that bad at all.
1. Someone to tell you when you're being a loser.
Throughout the early stages of high school my sister had already knew what was deemed "socially acceptable" and what wasn't. Having her tell me what was and wasn't okay to wear was a big help.
2. Having access to a free ride.
Having an older sibling who has a car can definitely be a life saver. Always having a ride to and from school, a ride to my friends house and a ride home from a party late at night was always much appreciated.
3. Someone to loosen up your parents.
Parents tend to go harder on the older sibling because they are essentially the first one's to do everything. After an older sibling has experienced something, the parents tend to lighten their grip and give their second child some more breathing room.
4. Having someone to always grab you a drink.
Let's face it, we don't always do what were suppose to do and having someone within reach who is of age, is pretty awesome.
5. They always know where the parties are.
As a sophomore in college, I have the luxury of my older sibling going to a college about 15 minutes from me. Whenever the parties by me are dead, there's always somewhere else to go.
6. You can always rely on them for help with school work.
With an older sibling, they have more experience and have a better understanding of what's to come, especially with school work. Whenever you have a question or need help, just shoot them a text.
7. They'll always be there to get you out of trouble.
Parents can be tough on you sometimes and it's always helpful having someone backing you up. If you're there for them, they'll be there for you.
8. Someone to always give you life advice.
Older siblings have been through more and have a better understanding of the real world. Things can get stressful, especially in college and having someone to talk to who has already been through it can be extremely helpful.
9. Someone who knows you more than you know yourself.
It may be strange, but your older sibling knows you more than you think. Whenever you feel peer pressured or uncertain, your older sibling will be right by your side.
10. You'll always have a friend.
Not only do you have an older sibling, but you'll always have someone who's more than that, someone who will be by your side, no matter what.
11. Someone to tell you that it'll always get better.
Going through something is never easy and doing it alone can be even tougher. Having the arm of an older sibling around your shoulder, somehow, always lessens the pain.
