People constantly make fun of for for how much I brag about how perfect my little is. I would say I'm sorry, but I'm not... because she is pretty perfect. Well, perfect for me. What I love most about the relationship I have with my little is that we are the perfect match. She's the peanut to my butter, the spring to my step and the shake to my bake.

We've all heard the horror stories, and the magical ones, about big/little relationships in sororities. While it's a lot less common than people think to end up in that picture perfect relationship, it does still happen. Here's a list of ways to tell if you're part of this dynamic duo.

1. The number of matching clothing articles you have with her has far surpassed the original stitched letters you bought her for initiation.

2. You get irrationally jealous whenever they hang out with anyone else. 

3. Any good story that you tell people has her on the other side. 

4. You don’t make any major plans without her. Ever, or even minor plans now that we’re talking about it. 

5. She knows every grimy detail about everything. Way more than any person should really know. And anything you're telling me, you're pretty much telling my little, too, so keep that in mind.

6. You spoil her rotten long after secret sister week has ended. For example, the need for matching big/little wine glasses comes up in conversation and within 10 minutes there’s an Etsy confirmation receipt in your inbox. 

7. You have big/little wine nights more than once a week. Probably, every day.

8. You’ve experienced each others worst and best days. You've been her shoulder to cry on after every horrible guy breaks her heart and the person to squeal with when that cute guy from the other night texts her.

9. If people saw your text message exchange… actually, we will not go there.

10. You get separation anxiety when you’re apart for more than even a few hours.