To all the heathens out there and to their poor parents, I assure you it gets better!
1. Spankings meant absolutely nothing to you.
Well, you see a strong-willed child isn't quite strong enough of a term for how willful I can and could be. When I was younger and would have a temper tantrum, I would hurl things from the back seat of the car into the front. It was my specialty, and my mom used to keep a paint stick in her car so she could attempt to contain me but unfortunately, it never made much difference. I would just get out of reach and if the car stopped, take off running. Imagine my poor mom trying to drive while Leila induced bombs of various objects were flying by her head. Sorry, Mom!
2. Rules were more like suggestions.
3. The word impossible did not resonate.
4. Everything you put effort into was your idea.
5. If you wanted something, you found a way.
I became pretty resourceful at a young age. If I wanted something I would find a way to get it.
6. Respect had to be earned.
7. You don't fit in a "box."
8. A freight train couldn't stop you.
When I was in kindergarten, I played soccer and was goalie during our game when this kid ran up and tried to score. I caught the ball and set it down (because I apparently didn't understand we were still playing), and the kid kicked the ball right in. I proceeded to scream bloody murder, stalked off the field and refused to play. Needless to say that was the end of soccer.
9. You'll exhaust all resources, all energy and do absolutely anything to get what you want.
I specifically remember when I was in 8th grade, I asked my mom if I could get my cartilage pierced, and she said "No, why don't we until I can research it more?" Well, that wasn't a good enough an answer for me apparently, so I looked it up on YouTube and pierced it myself.
Thank Your Mom!
As you've probably gathered I wasn't the easiest child but my mom stuck by me despite my ridiculousness. After all being a strong-willed child isn't always the worst thing. Those qualities can be negative but also really positive. I'm still difficult, but I have learned to use my stubbornness to succeed, and we all know I will if I set my mind to it!
