10 tips to make your Significant other's valentines day this year

10 tips to make your Significant other's valentines day this year


1. Take your significant other out to eat and carb them up

They say there is no better way to the heart than through the stomach. pro tip: if you want to go somewhere fancy be sure to make reservations as many people may also be hungry and want a fancy dinner.

2. Be original as much as possible

There's nothing more special than feeling like someone went out of their way just to make you happy. Avoid the cheesy cards with the same old dad joke pick up lines on them, unless that's what your significant other is into.

3. Try to make your own gifts

Sure we all love new and exciting things, but I believe it's so special when someone makes you an original gift because they really took the time to give you something personal. Side note: some great personal gifts to make for your SO could be a scrapbook, a video of pictures and videos of you two, a mixtape, a date jar or love coupons.

4. Have a plan for the day/ night

Out of all of the days in the year this is your one you should have for. Let's face it girls have their hopes up for some sort of date whether it be a date at a fancy restaurant or a cuddle session to your favorite movie, at least act prepared and show you want to spend your day together special.

5. Hit up Hallmark

No literally. Most Valentine's Day haters call this day just a "Hallmark Holiday" well fine if that's what they want to call it why not pay a visit to your local Hallmark and prove that their is nothing wrong with pink stuffed animals and heart shaped candies, in my opinion those things are fun anyways so why not celebrate with them.

6. "With just 4.99 you can make your girl's day."

This is a very popular saying from the female population but what does it mean? It means flowers are cheap people and they're simple. They smell nice they look nice and they make us gals feel nice.

7. Do fun things beyond "the typical Valentine's Day"

Valentine's day doesn't just have to be about dressing all fancy and going to a nice dinner. You can do lots of things, it's basically a day meant for sharing your love so why not spend it going on a series of mini dates. Spend the day binge watching your favorite shoes, making and decorating cookies, playing board games, and anything your heart desires.

8. Despite all the love and passion try to be considerate of the singles

Not sure which of the names "Valentines day" or "Singles awareness day" is easier on the ears but try to make it on the single's eyes with your SO in public.

9. Don't forget to be yourself because that's what's most important

After all of the forced gifts and fancy dinners and all of the sweetness in-between don't forget to be yourself, no matter how weird, because that is the true reason why your partner is with you and you should celebrate each other not just the holiday.

10. Basically be as extra as you can

The bigger the better? Okay maybe not, but going above and beyond does no harm in showing how much you love someone.

And if your bae is isn't taking the hints this Valentine's Day or you don't have a bae...

Or, as recommended, always

Cover Image Credit: Sierra Gardner

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11 Feminist Halloween Costumes You Don't Need Cleavage To Feel Sexy In

If you’re looking for the most scandalous outfits to wear this Halloween, this may not be it.

If you're a socially conscious f eminist, you'll know sexy shouldn't be defined by anything other than what you make of it.

However, when most people type in "sexy Halloween costumes" into their search engine, they might be looking for tight bodysuits or something that shows a little more cleavage. Don’t get me wrong, I'm not knocking out bunny ears or mesh tights. However, it might be time to stretch what that definition means.

I've gathered a few costume ideas that are sure to make a statement this Halloween while representing some of the most iconic women of our time. So, here are the ten best Halloween costumes for forward-thinking women like us!

1. Rosie the Riveter

Who better to show that we are equal and can do a “man’s job” just as good (or better) than Rosie the Riveter? This outfit is bold and inexpensive. You may even have this in your closet!

2. Marilyn Monroe

"I am very definitely a woman and I enjoy it.”

More proof that you can be beautiful in pants or a dress. Embrace the beauty within.

3. Taylor Swift

“I don’t really think about things as guys versus girls. I never have. I was raised by parents who brought me up to think if you work as hard as guys, you can go far in life,” Taylor Swift said in an interview with The Daily Beast.

Enough said.

4. Hillary Clinton

President or not I’m still with her. Just like feminists and activists before her, she has paved the way for modern women to stand up for themselves and have a voice.

5. Susan B. Anthony

Susan B. Anthony proved any woman could turn her dreams into a reality. She helped remove limitations and showed women to be fearless. Fast forward 97 years and women can achieve even more than. Yes, we still have more to accomplish, but we’re definitely nearing the horizon!

6. Amelia Earhart

Not only was she an American aviator, she was also the first woman to ever fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. Talk about goals. This Halloween, you can defy gender norms just like Amelia did.

7. Frida Kahlo

Surrealist painter Frida Kahlo explored the depths of her identity, culture, gender, class, love, and loss. Through her persona and her artwork, she defied feminine beauty and gender stereotypes in a time where women had few rights and were viewed as submissive. Who ever said you had to get your brows waxed anyway?

8. Birth Control

Hands off my birth control!

This might be sound a little kooky, but isn't that what Halloween is all about? This year, make it a point to express how you feel through your costume. Women need to stick together! So, let's dress up as birth control to remind the GOP we will not accept another restriction.

9. Wonder Woman

Adding Wonder Woman to our list was a no-brainer. She’s a crowd favorite, especially the way Gal Gadot represented her in the new movie.

Overall, Wonder Woman is a symbolic character that reminds us anyone can be a hero. The days when only little boys looked up to their favorite superhero are long gone. Now, kids and adults of any gender have a badass female superhero to fawn over.

10. Madonna

More than 30 years ago Madonna broke the barriers of what men wanted women to be. In a time where women were expected to follow certain rules, her attitude and bravery overcame those norms. Shoutout to "Hocus Pocus" for the inspo.

11. Rey from "Star Wars"

In "Star Wars: The Force Awakens," Han Solo's new protégé Rey is loaded with martial skills anyone would admire. Daisy Ridley plays the franchise's first female protagonist with a strong feminist persona. Rey refuses to be defined as "just a woman" and is definitely no damsel in distress. Instead, she is a fighter, survivor, and all around badass.

This Halloween, don't just be brave. Be Rey.

Cover Image Credit: Beyoncé's Facebook Profile

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16 Things You Have To Do This Year To Complete Your Ultimate Fall Bucket List

We LOVE a good list to follow, especially when it involves fall.


If you're tired of not knowing what to do these days, then you have come to the right place. Spice up your life and latte with these fun ideas.

1. Clean out your wardrobe

You know you'll be inviting new fall pieces in, so why not make some room?

2. Donate your clothes

Now that you've rid your closet of things you no longer wear, give them to someone who will.

3. Try baking something fall related

We aren't all great at baking, but it's something fun to do!

4. DIY sweater or flannel

Put your DIY skills to the test by adding you own style to an old sweater or flannel.

5. Take pictures

Fall is a beautiful season, take advantage of it and make some long lasting memories.

6. Have a photo-shoot 

Grab one of your best photographer friends, put on a cute fall outfit, and let your modeling skills take flight.

7. Go out with your friends

There are plenty of things to do with your friends, so go out and have some much needed girl/guy time. Check out a new horror movie, go to a pumpkin patch, or a haunted attraction in your local area!

8. Spend time with your family

After some time out with your friends, always remember your family. We're getting close to thanksgiving and I don't know about you, but being thankful for my family ranks pretty high on my list.

9. Re-decorate/re-arrange your room

There's nothing better than a refresher of your living space, buy some new decor or re-arrange your furniture.

12. Wear cute socks

Fuzzy. Socks. The best words ever in my opinion. They keep your feet warm on these chilly fall nights and come in many different colors and designs.

11. Change up your hairstyle

If you've had long hair forever, maybe you're ready for a big change. If you aren't wanting a drastic cut, try styling it a new way!

12. Go try a pumpkin spice latte

This is really basic, but it is kind of a fall staple. Let people enjoy things.

13. Stay focused on school 

There are a lot of exciting things going on during the fall months, but remember to keep your head in the books, too.

14. Go on a fall themed date with your S.O.

There's no better time to cozy up to your sweetheart than during the fall time. Be creative and enjoy each others company.

15. Go to a high school or college football game

Football is extremely important during the fall, so make time to go to a few games. Even if you don't like football you can enjoy the time with friends (plus the food can be pretty tasty).

16. Be yourself 

There is nothing worse than trying to be something that you are not. Stay true to yourself and be the best version of you that you can be. Work those fuzzy socks and post that adorable new fall picture, you are awesome.

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