When watching Gossip Girl, most are focusing on Chuck and Blair, and probably on the fact that Dan Humphrey is pretty much being the worst, but we can't help but be intrigued by the little quotes and phrases that gossip girl herself says throughout the show. Anytime there is a dramatic scandal, you can almost bet that gossip girl will drop some words of wisdom. At the beginning, middle, and end of each episode, her advice is normally pretty great. Here are 20 quotes that she was really spot on with.

1."The thing about new beginnings, is that they requite something else to end."

Season 2, episode 16—You’ve got Yale!

2. "Sometimes you need to step outside, clear your head and remind yourself of who you are. And where you wanna be. And sometimes you have to venture outside your world in order to find yourself."

Season 1, episode 12, School Lies.

3. "When faced with an uncertain future, the questions we truly hate to ask are the ones we we fear we already know the answer to."

Season 3, episode 3, The Lost Boy.

4."While most people think it's our brain that controls our actions, it's often our heart that gets the biggest workout."

Season 3, episode 18, The Unblairable Lightness of Being.

5. "With enough time eventually we all see what was right in front of us. And realize no matter how long it took, it was worth the wait."

Season 3, episode 13, The Hurt Locket.

6."Mistakes. We all make them. They usually start with the best of intentions. Like keeping a secret to protect someone. Or getting some distance from the person you’ve become. Sometimes we don’t even know what mistakes we’ve made to get us where we are. Or we figure it out just in time to make it right again. But every mistake happens for a reason. To teach you a lesson you would otherwise never learn."

Season 2, episode 20, Remains of the J.

7."The thing about expectations is most of the time, someone else sets them for you. Yet you feel like they’ve been there all along. And you can’t wait to live up to them. But just because you know what’s expected of you doesn’t mean you still can’t surprise everyone."

Season 5, episode 1, Yes, Then Zero.

8.”They say the road of life is long and winding. So it’s important to mark the milestones along the way.”

Season 5, episode 6, I Am Number Nine.

9. “Of course when you fan an old flame sometimes you wind up just getting burned.”

Season 6, episode 8, It’s Really Complicated.

10.”But age breeds wisdom. And this I know: the best is yet to come.”

Season 6, episode 1, Gone Maybe Gone.

All in all, her little words of wisdom may be intimidating, but they might also be exactly what you needed all along.

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