As humans, we naturally feel like we have a boundary between what is acceptable to say to others, and what is not. Often times, things like our ‘true feelings’, or our deepest desires, are things that get brushed into the category of; keep it to yourself.
Why is it like that? Why can’t we say exactly what’s on our minds?
Most of the time we claim it’s because we could not word it correctly, or we simply ‘could not find the right time’ for it.
But, whatever the reasoning may be, here are ten things we all wish we could say to someone.
“No, I do not like that ____ on you.”
The question that can make or break a friendship/relationship is the always asked, and always dreaded, “How do I look? Do you like it?” This changing room talk is a tough one. Do you tell your friend/S.O that they don’t look good, or do you bs your way through it and agree to whatever they think? Either way, god bless you if you’re honest.
“I don’t think they’re the right person/good enough for you.”
This isn’t one that’s necessarily hard to say, but moreso one that we choose not to say (unless it’s really, really bad). Nobody wants to break the news that your best friend’s date isn’t Mr./Mrs. Right - especially if they’re already convinced they are. However, no matter how heartbreaking the conversation may be, always make sure to watch out for your friends/siblings, and never let them remain in an unhealthy situation.
“I actually really enjoy doing ____.”
Most people will read this and disagree, however, we all have that one thing we won’t say we like until someone else says it first. For example, do you still play Pokemon Go? Or maybe you still dabble around in something like NeoPets - either way, don’t be afraid to be yourself!
“I’m in love with you.”
Everyone’s afraid to be honest about how they feel. Nobody wants to be the first to admit that they like/love another person, because the idea of being rejected is terrifying - or maybe because you feel like it wouldn’t be okay if you did. Sharing your feelings for someone shouldn’t be scary. Everyone is bound to fall in love at some point in their life; and, we shouldn’t miss out on an opportunity just because we never had the courage to tell that person how we feel.
“Do you want to be friends?”
Making friends is by far one of the most terrifying experiences. Essentially, you’re just two strangers who happen to share some common interests. Maybe you think they’re your best friend, but to them you’re just the kid to watch movies with. Communication is key!
“I don’t want to do that.”/”No.”
Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you believe in! Your opinion is your opinion, and you’re entitled to it no matter what it is! Just make sure you’re being respectful.
“I have no clue what you’re talking about.”
People are so scared to admit to not knowing something, that we often take the phrase ‘fake it till you make it’ to literally. Take the chance to learn something; and, if that person is offended you haven’t been paying attention, try upping the ante on your listening skills.
“I don’t like dogs.”
I think this one speaks for itself.
“I miss you.”
This one ties in with telling people you love them. People are scared to let their emotions show in case they don’t get reciprocated. Sometimes others need to hear that they’re missed, and sometimes others need that nudge to realize that they also miss you.
“I’m sorry.”
Taking responsibility can be hard, especially if you tend to be on the more prideful side. However, sometimes it’s good to be the one to apologize - even if didn’t necessarily do anything wrong. Ultimately, it comes down to is it worth it or not, and chances are, it’s not.
