There are always so many words left unsaid between siblings. I try not to be too cheesy, but since I can't say it in words, here it is in writing.

1. Mom and Dad are there to help you.

Yes, at times it will be frustrating, having them be on your back all the time. Trust me, once you’re out of the house, you’ll miss the constant nagging. Our parents are our rocks. Treat them well. You won't realize how much you really need them till you live away from them.

2. Break the rules, but not too many times!

I missed curfew a few times, or took the car out for too long a drive. Hey, if I survived, you will too. So take advantage of that!

3. Don’t change.

You’re in that awkward limbo stage right now where you have your own style, but also want to keep up with emerging trends. Don’t change who you are. And especially don’t change who you are for others. Popularity means nothing, you are your own, unique person.

4. Be kind.

Be kind to others, and you’ll receive the same kindness. What goes around comes around.

5. Avoid drama.

Drama creates tension. Try to stay out of it. Don't make a big deal out of nothing.

6. Be courageous.

Audition for the lead in the musical. Don’t be afraid of what others will think. You have the talent. Mom knows, Dad knows, and I know. Go put yourself out there and show them what you’re made of.

7. Don’t forget your roots.

We have been brought up with strong morals. Don’t lose them in the midst of all this craziness. Your ethics drive who you will become.

8. Don’t ever grow up.

Keep that sense of humor instilled in yourself forever. Laugh at dumb jokes. Take life as it comes, and when things get rough, never lose that beautiful smile of yours.

9. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It shows that you have the strength to seek the unknown, a desire to learn, or just a bit of guidance to nudge you in the right direction.

10. I love you.

Just two years ago, we were on that hayride together. Three years ago, at that movie you begged me to see with you. And now, in different cities. Even though we’re miles apart, not a day goes by without thinking of you. I probably don’t say this enough, but I love you to the moon and back.