I can be a very needy person and yet I can be the most independent person ever. Regardless, here is a few things that my future husband needs to be prepared for...
1. I have all the confidence in the world
I am overly confident most of the time but that does not mean that your support and opinions will not be appreciated. Still, tell me what you think of me and what you think of what I am doing, I promise it will mean the world to me.
2. I can be crazy... but the good kind of crazy.
I can be very energetic and it can be a bit too much for some people.
3. I can be messy.
When out in public try not to let me have any type of food that I could make a mess out off i.e. ribs, hot wings. I also have the occasional tendency to end up with ice cream on the tip of my nose when eating a cone; something I hope you find cute and quirky, and not gross and disgusting.
4. I come from a HUGE family.
Scott Disick is right, you will be thrown into a family that has more people than a small country. With eight kids, one grandchild, four parents... well you get the picture, that is just the immediate family.
5. I have a very strong past.
I do not take jokes about mental health, rape or anything of the sort lightly, I see it as ignorance and I hope you understand that that is something that will upset me very easily.
6. I take my work very seriously
I have very high ambitions and very high expectations for myself, and my work included. Therefore, I will not stop until I achieve my goals and I will not let anyone or anything stand in my way.
7. Kids are apart of my life plan... maybe.
There was a time when I loved the thought of having kids, but now that I am older I am not so sure if that is something I truly know if I want.
8. Did someone say bad attitude?
In the present moment, yes I do have a bad attitude, not all the time, but when something really fires me up my Jersey accent and the Italian hands are the first things to surface.
9. The cornier the better
I love to laugh and I love puns. Corny jokes are always the best jokes. I love to tell jokes, jokes most others find stupid but I find absolutely hilarious.
10. There will be no one that cares for you the way I do
I am difficult and I will be difficult, but if you are willing to take me on we will be great together. Relationships are all about the good, the bad and the ugly and we will experience that. No matter how bad it gets I will not turn my back and I will not give up. Vows are vows and I'm all about honoring my word. I can not promise rainbows and sunshine all the time, but I can promise commitment, trust, loyalty, and compassion.
