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10 Things I Learned From Moving Across The Country For College

A West Coast girl dropped in the Big Apple.

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10 Things I Learned From Moving Across The Country For College


  1. Simply naming where you’re from becomes a conversation piece. People’s interest immediately spikes and the questions begin to flow. “Why did you go so far for college? Do you miss home? Did you know anyone here?” You quickly learn to just nod along.
  2. There will always be others in the same shoes as you, those who have come from the opposite coast. Find them. These people become your lifeline. They are the people who will understand when the homesickness hits and you can’t just hop on the Metro North to go home for the weekend. When everyone else goes home for Columbus weekend, they are the people you will order in food and have a movie marathon with.
  3. When homesickness does hit, family is always just a call (or FaceTime) away. I never called my mom and dad so much as I did in the first weeks of college. While it is nowhere near the same as seeing them in person, it always helped reassure me that everything would be all right.
  4. Even though you feel far away and by yourself, everyone else is viewing you as the person who was brave enough to go so far away by yourself. When you come home on breaks, people can’t wait to talk to you about how college in the big city has been. You are the talk of the town (or at least of your mother’s Pilates class).
  5. The abbreviations you use for colleges don’t hold the same meaning across the country, and therefore you inevitably learn new ones from your friends. It took about a month for me to learn that when someone said they had a friend at U Conn they were referring to the University of Connecticut, while when I said I had a lot of friends at U of A, I got blank stares.
  6. If you’re coming from a completely different climate, you may have new seasons to adapt to. For me, it was winter. Snow boots and oversized coats filled my online shopping carts for months as the anticipation grew, but nothing except experience could have prepared me for the change in weather. Wearing leggings and snow boots to the gym and then changing into your workout clothes once I got there became a normal ritual.
  7. You become well acquainted with a part of the country that seemed confusing before. The layout of the east coast suddenly becomes easy knowledge. When in the past you may have questioned if Rhode Island was above or below New York, the answer is now obvious. I quickly learned that when my roommate was headed home to Massachusetts, she was going north, and if I went to visit my sister in Washington, DC, I was headed south.
  8. Taking the train is so normal it becomes part of everyday life. Coming from Arizona, the only train I had ever taken was the kids attraction at the local Railroad Park. Now, whether it be the subway, Metro North, NJ Transit, or Amtrak, I am constantly taking a train somewhere.
  9. The way people talk is noticeably different. Those who ventured from Massachusetts still use the word wicked, along with calling the water fountain a bubbler (thank you to my freshman roommate for teaching me those two). The accents become distinguishable the more you hear them, and soon enough without someone having to say where they are from, you know whether it is New York, Boston, or Jersey.
  10. It will be the best decision you have ever made. You make friends from all over the country and learn so much about places you have never been. The separation from home eventually makes you more confident, and your remind yourself that you left home and moved over 2,000 miles away on your own.
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