Throughout my first year in university, I have learned more than I could have imagined, and not just academically; some good life lessons were thrown in there, too. Nothing in college is sugar-coated, and I've definitely experienced my share of struggles, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
1. Yes, you do need to study.
I learned this the hard way. Trust me when I say your high school "study" habits simply won't cut it at the college level. I had really good grades back in high school, but I was in for a rude awakening just in the first couple weeks of my freshman year at a university.
2. Get out of your room and talk to people during move-in and the few days following.
If you're not comfortable stopping by strangers' rooms, at least leave your door open and allow them to come to you. It's harder to make friends once everyone on your floor has already done so with each other.
3. No matter how independent you are, you will miss home at some point.
Although part of the point of going away to college is the going away, you'll most likely experience a bit of homesickness. Also, your mom probably misses you just as much as you miss her, if not more, so give her a call.
4. But, don't go home every chance you get.
I learned this one the hard way, too, as I worked in my hometown throughout all of first semester. Though making some extra money can be important, those first few weekends when everyone is out and about socializing can be just as crucial to forming new friendships.
5. Choose your professors wisely.
Look 'em up on Rate My Professor. It's a life saver.
6. Don't take that 8 AM.
Trust me, just don't. Been there, done that, avoiding it at all costs in the future.
7. Learn to communicate effectively.
Having a roommate can be a big adjustment, but always remember to treat them with the same amount of respect you'd like in return. Say what's on your mind, but say it with kindness.
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8. For the most part, your grades will reflect your effort.
You need to be willing to put the time and effort into doing well on tests and papers. Professors aren't always as lenient as teachers you've had in the past, and they expect your best work on all of your assignments. This is like a full-time job.
9. It is going to be harder than you think.
Some tough love here, but it's the truth. I could have used it at the beginning of second semester especially. Classes move quickly, and you really have to set your priorities and manage your time if you want to pass.
10. Enjoy it.
As cliche as it sounds, it goes by fast. Take advantage of the opportunities that are given to you, work hard, and have some fun while you're out on your own for the first time. These are your last years as a teenager; make them count.
