College is one hell of a journey, and it's a path some of us choose to help us get a feel of what it's truly like to go out into the world on our own. Besides the fact that college teaches you the essential skills you'll need to get the job you want, college also shows you a lot about yourself that you didn't even know - no matter what you aspire to be in life. To the few who are blessed enough to attend college, pat yourself on the back. Your first homework is complete! Now in order to fully get that college experience, as from my personal experience and what my upperclassmen friends have told me, here are 10 things you HAVE to do before you graduate.
1. Go to your school's game day
There's nothing like showing pride and support for your school's team, those guys and gals go through rigorous training and 9 times out of 10 they perform their best for the crowd. So why not show up and cheer them on? Even for those who aren't huge sports fans, you might actually enjoy yourself with a group of friends making memories. College goes by fast. So why not make it worthwhile?
2. Go to homecoming
I can only compare this occasion as the adult version of prom, don't judge me please. Now I personally haven't seen anyone dress too extravagant for homecoming, but then again, there's nothing wrong with that if it's what you like. Homecoming is a social and fun event, you get to meet more people and show off your dance moves. Besides the lovely catering and fun-filled night with friends, attending this event is like a milestone in your college years. If you don't go, you're essentially missing out. You've worked hard right? Go have fun! Enjoy yourself, everyone deserves a night to wind down and let loose! Bring out your best attire and shake that tail feather!
3. Go on a road trip
Not into the party scene? Totally fine! Why not go on a road trip with a few friends? Get a group of your closest friends together and plan this out thoroughly -- trust me, the last thing you want to do is suggest changes last minute -- and think about your destination. Or no destination. Put the phone down and get in touch with your surroundings, check out places with your friends and make memories - oh and don't forget to play some good music. I recommend The 1975, Queen, Pink Floyd, Sublime, Rebelution, and Bob Marley for those reggae lovers!
4. Study abroad
Who doesn't want to study abroad? If I had the money, I would love to study in Paris for a semester. Luckily, there are programs and ways to get scholarships so you pay little to nothing to study abroad. An English professor of mine told me that when he studied abroad somewhere in Europe, he had fun and the experience changed his life. Observing different cultures and being in an unfamiliar place is a great way to get out your comfort zone and start living.
5. Know what major you'll love doing
Ok, let me explain this one and why this is really important. Most people go into a major simply because they don't want to struggle with money and to impress their parents. And I know where you're coming from. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be financially stable and making your parents proud, if anything that's a selfless and smart act to a certain extent. Now here's my question: If you take your parents and money out the equation, do you still want to pursue that major? If yes, then by all means go in with your heart and soul! But if not, you've got to change that ASAP. Your parents have already lived their lives, and yes, of course their voice matters but you don't want to be miserable either, stuck in a job you dread. Same thing goes for money. Money helps with the loans and all but if it's what you're only after you'll still end up miserable in the long run. What truly matters is what YOU want and what YOU want to pursue. We have too many people throwing their happiness away because of financial situations and what others are saying. In your life, your voice is number one. Do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.
6. Learn to cook
Chinese takeout and pizza are honestly a gift to us, but unfortunately we can't have that everyday. Learning to cook can help you save money and slim down if you're observant on the type of foods you cook. Of course you don't need to be a top chef, but making simple stuff little by little is enough and doing it often helps you to retain that memory. Try eating healthier and mix it up from time to time, and once you live on your own you won't have to call mom to drop off food for you at your place. This vital skill is key to adulthood. Nobody gets it right the first time around but practice is essential. So go ahead! Own that kitchen! Just please for the love of God don't burn down the house.
7. Move out your parent's house
This speaks for itself. Do you really want to live under your parents' rules and limit yourself? Of course not! Listen, mom and dad are cool folks, but you want to spread your wings, too. Imagine coming home super late buzzed or bringing your boyfriend/girlfriend over. It's too awkward. Nope. Move out. NOW. This is also a part of adulthood, learning to live on your own.
8. Take a class that has nothing to do with your major
You learn a lot about yourself in different situations, taking a class completely from what you're used to can spark something in yourself. Personally I've already taken a class not connected to my major, and to be quite honest, it was a wonderful experience I'll never forget. Try it out. You might actually enjoy it.
9. Get an internship
There's nothing like getting a taste of your dream job while getting paid for it, even a regular job in your field is pretty exciting. This process isn't easy, but don't be afraid to ask around your college campus for help and tips on preparing for an interview. They're there to help you! Take advantage of your resources. Hard work always pays off!
10. Enjoy the best years of your life
Make these years in college worth it, plenty of graduates tell you it passes by fast and it truly does. Don't lose sight of your goal, and stop at nothing to get your diploma, once you leave you'll be ready to take on the world. All the tears, all-nighters, and stress will be worth it in the end. Work hard, study hard, don't be afraid to ask questions, learn, and have fun along the journey. You'll never know the meaning of success without knowing failure. Once you fall, get back up. Let's go college students! WE CAN DO THIS!
