Here you are, in your final few months of high school. You are about to embark on a whole new adventure in this big ole' world and I could not be more proud of you. I've spent your entire life giving you unwanted advice and I know it's almost time to stop and let you make your own mistakes, but before you toss that cap, there are some things I want to make sure you know.
1. Life will not always go as planned
Life is complicated and things won't always go the way that you think they should. It's OK to be disappointed about it but you also have to remember it's not the end of the world. Pick yourself up and make a new plan.
2. You cannot please everyone
You just can’t. Don’t lose yourself trying to make everyone else happy. This is your life and you should always do what brings you the most joy.
3. Never be too proud to ask for help
There will be many struggles in life and it is inevitable that you will find yourself wanting or needing help at some point. That is perfectly OK. Everyone needs help in life and it is OK to ask.
4. Remember where you come from
Wherever life takes you, always remember where you came from, even if you’re not always proud of it. This place shaped you into the wonderful human you are and for that you should always be grateful.
5. Be kind
Always. This world can make you lose your happy, and it's so important to hang on to it as well as spread it to other people. You never know who's life you'll change by just offering a kind word or smile.
6. Call mom often
Granted, this only applies if you ever decided to move out. But when that time comes, never forget to call your mother. She worries about you even when you're in the same room, so always let her know that you're alright.
7. Remember you’re beautiful
Both inside and out. But don't let yourself become conceited or vain -- those qualities take away from natural beauty so quickly.
8. Never be afraid to question things
You’re going to face situations in life that will make you question things that you’ve always believed to be true, so do it. Question them, challenge them. It’s OK to change your mind.
9. Trust
I know that it’s not easy, I know that it’s not always fun and I especially know that it isn’t your first instinct, but sister, not everyone will let you down. Let people in. It's terrifying but it's also part of growing up.
10. Do not give up
Change your plans or make new ones, but please don’t give up on anything that you want with all your heart. The path that you take to achieve what you want can change a million times, but don’t let anything keep you from accomplishing what you want. It is not selfish to have goals.
11. Don’t change
This one may be a little cliché because as you grow and experience new things, the only thing that will be constant is change. But don’t let this world change your soul; it’s the most beautiful thing about you.
I could not be more proud of who you
are, what you’ve done thus far and all you’re going to do. You’re going to
change the world.
