If you are anything like me, then you don't like to give up on the things that are important to you. Chances are, the guy you are with is one of those things. When you met, things probably were going great. He treated you like the princess you are, showered you with attention, and kept you coming back for more. As time goes on, these things probably became few and far between. Maybe he started getting distant, blowing you off, or just not treating you the way you deserve. Because of who you are, you have held on. Held on for dear life. He is important, so you can't just give up on him...even if he is making you sad or making you question yourself.

1. Time and time again, he lets you down

He gets your hopes up, just to tear them down.

2. His actions are making you question yourself

He is being flakey, and it is making you think that something is wrong with you. There isn't. He is the one with the problem. Don't let his actions make you think that you aren't good enough.

3. He keeps making promises he doesn't keep

Again, he builds up your hope, just to let you down. You keep hoping that for once he will come through, but he isn't, and he probably won't.

4. Your relationship is holding you back

You can't spread your wings. It’s important to be true to yourself. Figure out who you are and who you want to be, regardless if he is in the picture. A relationship that keeps you from growing isn’t the best one for you.

5. You keep waiting for him to change

You want him to be the way he was when you first got together. Unfortunately, that behavior was most likely just for the "honeymoon" stage. His true colors have shown. You are now trying to change him to fit your expectations, instead of accepting him as the person he is.

6. You keep having the same argument, but nothing changes

I did what I could to make it work out, but it always stopped at the same end. Twice, you might want to give another chance. But three times is a clear sign something is wrong.

7. He doesn't make you happy anymore

You used to get so excited to be around him, and he made you the happiest girl in the world. Now, he just doesn't. Don't let someone else be in charge of your own happiness.

8. You're living in the past

You have to think about all the good things that happened in the relationship to make you happy. You use them to make yourself think that you want to be with him and that things will get better. You're creating a false reality.

9. He makes you feel bad for what he has done

When you confront him about something, somehow it ends up coming back on you.

10. He isn't putting any effort into the relationship

It's all on you. If you want to hangout, you have to ask. It has become a one-sided relationship.