For the longest time i could honestly say i think my brother and i hated each other. Despised each other actually. We constantly fought and bickered and couldn't agree on anything. I had no intent to become close with him. Looking back now though, that was one of the dumbest ideas i had ever had in my life. He is the most supportive, genuine, kind human beings i have ever met in my life. Once my parents got divorced he was all i had. He was my rock. We stopped fighting and realized that out of everyone in this world, we only have each other for sure. I could go on forever but here is 10 things you know if your sibling is your best friend.
1. They always understand whatever family struggles you're having.
They are part of the family so they know whats going on. They're the best person to go to to figure out how to handle whatever the situation may be. They know all the crazy stuff that goes down and understand fully what exactly is happening.
2. No Judgement.
They have just as much dirt on you as you do them. It make sit a judgement free zone and you're able to tell them all the crazy fun stories you have.
3. You can tell them anything.
Some things they may not necessarily want to know everything, but putting their feelings to the side they honestly care whats up and are willing to listen and give advice when needed.
4. They know you almost better than you know yourself.
My brother can basically read my mind. He knows my facial expressions and what sets me off. We almost don't have to talk.
5.You can be yourself.
They know you're weird, no reason to try to hide it now.
6. They have seen you at your worst.
Whether it was sick and throwing up when you were 8, or crying heartbroken over a boy your siblings have seen you through it all, and still don't shun you.
7. Someone who protects you.
To have a sibling is to have someone who will fiercely protect you and your name with everything they have.
8. They don't expect anything in return.
They are just there. They don't want money, or food, or anything. They are simply there.
9. Even when others are against you, they are not.
When ever you make a huge mistake, or a bad decision they don't hate you, or leave you. They may think you're dumb, but they'll still understand.
10. They're a best friend for life.
Once you're old and grey your siblings are what you have. They've been around the longest and know the most.
I thank god every single day for my brother and everything he does for me. Hes my best friend, my partner in crime, and the taller sibling. But i would never trade him fro anyone else. So thank you brother, for everything.
