10 Do's and Don'ts of College

10 Do's and Don'ts of College

A guide to making it through the gauntlet of College

1) Do go out and meet new people. Enjoy yourself in a responsible way because come exam time you're going to be stressed. College can be stressful, its inevitable. Finding somewhat responsible ways to unwind is very important to surviving four years.

2) Don't lose your motivation because you finally have freedom. There are many things, people, and events that happen along the course of college that are tempting. Do it if you want, but don't forget the real reason you're in College: To learn and further your education, discover who you really are, and to become a better person.

3) Do remove yourself from your social comfort zone. Getting out and doing new things with new people is what college is supposed to be about. You would be surprised some of the great people you will meet along the way if you simply open yourself up.

4) Don't lose your sense of worth among the masses of people. Find a good group of people and hold on to them. These will be some of your best friends, and they are there to help. You are not just another face in the crowd.

5) Do skip class every once in a while. You need to take a day, not move, watch Netflix, and eat pizza occasionally. Having you time is important for your mind to unwind. And, to be honest, once you graduate this isn't very socially acceptable anymore.

6) Don't skip so much class that you get behind. It is tempting, we all know this. But, you will be much better off in the long run if you keep absences to a minimum. When you realize how much work you still have to do towards the end of the semester, on top of studying for exams, you will regret it.

7) Do take random road trips on random weekends. College is a time in your life when you actually have the opportunity to go wherever you want and do basically what you want. This does not last in most cases. Enjoy it while you have the opportunity.

8) Don't quit talking to your family. Regardless of what has happened in the past, having a good relationship with your parents during college is crucial. Sometimes you mess up, sometimes you need help, and sometimes you just need a shoulder to cry on. Family is always there and they are a great resource.

9) Do what you really want to do. Don't let what other people say effect what you do with your life. In the end, you will only be happy doing something that you love. Go after what makes you happy.

10) Don't lose yourself along the way. College is a great time, but it will also beat you down at times. Don't ever let those around you change who you really are at the core.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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My First College Gal Pal Road Trip Was Amazing

Every girl should have one good girls trip.


In some way or another, everybody has a list of things they want to do in their lives before it's all over. After all, we're human. There's adventure to be had in every life. One thing I have always wanted to do before I grew too old and grey was go on a road trip with my gal pals to the beach. A couple weeks ago, I achieved this memorable milestone, and it allowed me to open up to new surroundings and experiences.

On this trip, I went with two of my friends from college, Kait and Lindsey, to visit my roommate Elizabeth in Virginia Beach. This was pretty big for Lindsey and I because neither of us had been to Virginia Beach before. Thankfully Elizabeth and Kait knew their way around the city, so we never got lost on our way to and fro.

Like most vacations, my favorite parts probably took place at the beach. I'm always at utter peace stomping through mushy sand or leaning down to splash the salty water that tries to knock my short self over. We took pictures and did something us college girls rarely have time to do especially in school: Relax.

The four of us did not live up to the crazed stereotype of girl trips in movies. Although I finally got a chance to sing along to Taylor Swift in a car ride with my friends, so that's always a plus. We played "Top Golf" one day, and by some miracle, I actually won the second game by a fair amount after much humiliation in the first one. We visited some of Elizabeth's family, and I finally got to meet her giant dog Apollo (I call him 'Wolf Dog'). Everyday was another chance to ask with enthusiasm: "So what are we doing today?"

Our trip wasn't like the movies where we all cried or confessed our deepest darkest secrets. Everything the four of us shared was laughter and this calm feeling of being at home, in the chaotic peace of each other's company. We understand each other a little better due to finally seeing what we're like outside of Longwood University. After this, all I can say is that we're most definitely planning the next one!

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