Why You Won't Forget Your First Job

You Won't Forget Your First Job Because It's Everyone's First Real Step Into Adulthood

That first paycheck opens up a whole realm of possibilities that you'd only dreamed of before.

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That first paycheck opens up a whole realm of possibilities that you'd only dreamed of before. Before that check, it was always someone else's money - your parents, grandparents, a sibling in exchange for a favor. But that first slip of paper or electric deposit in your bank account...that is your money. It's proof of the work that you did to earn it, and it's yours to do with what you please. Of course, the reason you got that minimum-wage job was the money. But if you're lucky, the job becomes something you enjoy. And if you're not lucky...well, you'll still remember the experience.

You'll remember the people you worked with, if not by name then by characteristics. You'll remember that couple that you didn't know was a couple until after you've left, and wonder how you didn't put it together in the first place. The man bordering on elderly that definitely didn't look like he belonged at a movie theater? You'll remember him too, especially how irritated he made you feel when he was giving you advice about how to do your job. Seriously dude - you're the old man working a minimum-wage job with a bunch of teenagers and people in their early twenties. Oh yes, and you will definitely remember the guy that got hired with you that you already knew had issues. You'll sort of wish you were there to witness it when he got fired and apparently threw a fit in the parking lot, except that you were already really uncomfortable having had to speak privately to your manager about him...or maybe that's just me.

You'll remember how you got the job in the first place. Whether it was an online application that you didn't really expect to hear anything about or a friend who recommended you. The interview that felt like forever but was only ten minutes long, or the interview that took literally a minute for them to say, "You're hired!" and you thought to yourself that they must either be really trusting, or really desperate for workers. (It was probably the latter if the previously mentioned incident was any indication.)

You'll remember cleaning the bathrooms. If you lucked out, you never had to worry about explosive diarrhea that came out of the kid who had too much popcorn. If you lucked out, the bathroom wasn't actually the grossest thing you had to clean up. The grossest thing you had to clean up, in fact, was what was underneath the popcorn machine that had a broken oil valve. No one had cleaned underneath it in almost a month. Unpleasant was such a vast understatement, and you couldn't come up with a better adjective because you were so busy trying not to throw up and add to the mess.

You'll remember that the broken oil valve was just the beginning and that the entire popcorn machine shut down shortly thereafter. The shift you had where you had to tell customers that there was no popcorn? Well, you finally understood the stories on the internet about rude customers. The next day, enormous bags of popcorn were driven in from a town over an hour away, but it wasn't the same as the nice machine popcorn, and you weren't allowed to eat it because of the limited supply. But that's okay - if a pretzel was broken in the package, it couldn't be given to a customer. Instead, you got to eat it for free. ;)

You'll remember a million little things about your first job. The first time you worked the cash register, the first rush of people, the first time you were allowed to do inventory, and a dozen other experiences that built up that time in your life. It's one of the best things to carry with you as you grow.

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Saying Goodbye To Freshman Year

"High School goes by fast, but college goes by even faster."
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“High School goes by fast, but college goes by even faster”, we’ve all heard it and probably all ignored it as well. I mean time is time. It moves at the same pace no matter what you’re doing right?

Nope.

High School is over, I’m now a freshman in college and it’s April. I’m sitting here in my dorm looking at all my clothes, and bins thinking, how in the hell will this all fit in my car again? It is crazy, I need to be thinking about all of this now because there is one month of my freshman year left, just one.

All I can keep thinking is how? Wasn’t it just last week that I moved into my cozy room at the end of the hall, or just yesterday that I ran home to two hundred beautiful new sisters? As much as it seems like yesterday, it wasn’t.

It was almost eight months ago that I stepped onto this campus as a freshman, now it is my last four weeks and they are jam-packed. From formal to finals I am in the home stretch of my first year of college. I just registered for my classes next semester, and can’t get it through my head that I will soon be a sophomore.

While walking around campus I still catch myself thinking, wow I am really here. I am a college student, at a school, I fall more in love with every day. So, how can I be a sophomore now when I feel like I just got here?

Yes, I still have three amazing years of college ahead of me, and I can’t wait to see what those years have in store in for me. But, I just can’t help but feel a little sad that I won’t be a freshman anymore. I won’t be the youngest in my sorority family, I won’t be coming back to a dorm every night.

Now don’t get me wrong, I am stoked to live in an apartment next year with my absolute best friends. And you definitely could have heard me saying “I am so over this whole dorm thing” once or twice this semester, but now I can’t help but see all the things I’ll miss.

Freshman year is just unique. You get this giant clean slate, a fresh start. And it is just waiting to see what you’ll do with it. It truly is a year of firsts. My first failure, the first time being on my own, my first time not knowing anyone in my classes. Yes, that can all be a lot to take on, I was terrified at the start of the school year. But before I knew it, I had a routine, I had friends, I had a life here.

And this life surpassed all my expectations. I have a home away from home. I have friends that I know will be my bridesmaids some day. I have experiences that I’ll never forget.

Now as I head back home for the summer I couldn’t be more excited to be with my friends there and my family. But, I also couldn’t be sadder to leave my friends here, even if it’s only for three months because they’ve become another kind of family.

Despite leaving freshman year behind, we have so many more memories to make whether it’s doing the Seminole chop in Doak, coordinating our Halloween costumes, or just chilling at the house. We’ve all come so far this year, and I can’t wait to see just how far we go. So bring it on Sophomore year, I’m ready for ya.

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The 7 Best Pieces Of Advice I Have Been Given About Life

Some of the best advice I have been given over the years...

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There isn't a central theme among these pieces of advice or sayings. They are all just random things I have been told over the course of my life–especially in the last week. I find these 7 to be particularly helpful in various situations, and try to keep them in mind when I am in over my head.

1. "Don't be afraid to advocate for yourself because there is nobody who is going to help you more than you."

You are the #1 person who can help your own case. No one knows you as you do, therefore no one will be able to help you more than you can help yourself. A lot of things are mental, so once you can convince yourself that you deserve something (whatever it may be) you can convince anyone. Another saying goes along with this, on the flip side: "No one can diminish you but yourself." You are in control of your own self-perception, and you are very much capable of being your own worst enemy.

2. "Stand behind your reputation because you can never get it back."

My mom sent this to me the other day. Be who you are, and do it proudly. Especially with meeting people for the first time, you can never have a second chance at a first impression. That being said, if people view you in a bad light, figure out why that is and fix it. You may not be able to change someones initial thoughts of you, but you can change the way they view you after that.

3. "The best things in life happen unexpectedly."

"Life is what happens when you're busy making plans," also goes along with this. Trying to plan out every little detail of your life is only going to lead to disappointment. Sometimes you find the best things/what you're looking for when you're not actually looking. Just go through the motions and things will work out the way they are supposed to.

4. "Be proud of your accomplishments, no matter how small."

It's important to celebrate the little things. Did you go to class today? Good for you. Did you decide to drink water instead of a soda? That's awesome. How are you going to work up to doing bigger and better things if you don't have anywhere to start?

5. "Whatever you're stressing about now probably won't matter in five years."

As someone who is often eaten away by their own worry and anxiety, this is a mantra that I try to constantly remind myself. While it may seem like a big deal now, you need to keep in mind the bigger picture. Will it matter in 5 hours? 5 days? 5 months? And so on. If the answer is no to ANY of these questions, it's probably not worth beating yourself up over.

6. "Stop being the 'go to' person for someone you can't go to."

Someone tweeted that their pastor said this to them and the tweet went viral. A friend of mine sent it to me, and it really made me think. Something I have struggled with over the years is making excuses for people who don't show up for me when I am constantly there for them. This is a helpful reminder that if they aren't contributing to you and your life, you shouldn't have to bend over backward to help them out and be in their lives.

7. "Two wrongs don't make a right."

While this is often a saying that parents use on their young children, it is applicable to pretty much any stage of life. My parents, especially my dad, have constantly said this, whether it was in reference to fighting with my siblings or dealing with people at school. Even as a 20-year-old, I find myself saying this when I hear about arguments and problems people are having. Everyone wants to get even, to best those who hurt them. While it's important to stick up for yourself, it is also important to be the bigger person and not stoop to their level (and whatever else your parents told you in these situations).

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