You Will Move Mountains

You Will Move Mountains

Finding yourself is a journey of love and hate with who you really are.

Twenty-One years old and I still have two more years of college when I'm supposed to be graduating spring 2018. I attended the "great" University of Pittsburgh at Johnstown for two years before deciding that I needed a change or I was going to fail out. I grew up in little old Johnstown, three minutes from the UPJ campus. For those of you that don't know Johnstown, it can be described in one word... awful. They say on every corner there is a bar and a church which is almost 100% true. With that being said, I grew up around lots of alcohol which led to my excessive drinking every weekend at UPJ and resulted in taking an F as a final grade like a champ. Mind you.. I didn't want to go to UPJ. It was more or less a forced situation by my father because that is where he went and he was paying.

Now, I am living in South Carolina. So, ultimately I won! I moved in with my dads parents (my "Grandparents") to establish residency so that I could go to school and get in state tuition... I now live in my own apartment. I have been through so many obstacles financially, physically and emotionally since I have been living in South Carolina. Let me tell you, until you are completely on your own paying for everything yourself and being an "adult" you don't know who you truly are. I have learned so many things about myself that I honestly did not want to know. One example is that I have a hard time sharing with other people. This is probably because I was an only child, but that's besides the point. There are a lot more negative aspects but I will focus on the positives.

1. I read when I never even touched a book before.

2. I pray. Even though I used to be terrified of churches and didn't have a religious bone in my body.

3. Excessive drinking annoys the HE double hockey sticks out of me.

4. I love the outdoors (minus spiders and snakes) and started hiking as a hobby.

5. I am a clean/neat freak. (I used to let everything pile up so you couldn't walk in my room)

6. I am now interested in learning and doing well in college.

Finding myself has been one of the greatest journeys I have been on and its not even close to being over. With all this being said, BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE AND DO NOT LET ANYONE DICTATE YOUR DECISIONS. In the end, life works itself out on the right path no matter how many turns it may take. Be humble, be positive and always trust in your heart.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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My 20s Are My Selfish, Self-Discovery Years, And I'm Not Sorry For That

Why I'm using my twenties as a time to learn about myself, and why you should, too.


In Jennifer Garner's movie, "Thirteen Going on Thirty," her transformation-inducing phrase is, (and I'm paraphrasing), "I want to be thirty, flirty, and thriving." T

hat's great for a thirteen-year-old to think that...but what about your twenties? I am twenty-two, and I'll turn twenty-three in a little over a month; I'd love to enjoy being twenty-three and not worrying about my thirties just yet.

I'm just now starting to get a sense of who I am as a person, and how I see myself. I've got plenty of time left to worry about being "flirty and thriving," and so do you.

If you're reading this article and you're just turning twenty or twenty-one, you're probably just starting to figure out who you are in the world, and how to make sense of all the absolute craziness that is adulthood. That's okay. This big societal rule that tries to tell us that by a certain age we're supposed to have our lives carved out and our "mission statement" etched into who we are is complete bullshit.

Life is all about the process. It is a constant learning process and it's okay not to have all of the answers.

Of course, practical things like your career choice and figuring out how you're going to pay your bills or afford insurance are things that definitely have age markers associated with them, but everything else is up to you.

You get to take time to decide exactly how you will define yourself. That is within your power, and it's nobody else's right to decide for you.

So, I'm going to be completely and unabashedly myself, and figure out what that means to me. I'm going to spend my twenties falling in and out of love so many times until I find the right person. I'm going to spend some nights out later than I should, I'm going to take road trips with some of my best friends, and I'm going to dare to do many other things that I thought were never possible.

The art of finding yourself lies in experience. My twenties will absolutely continue to be my selfish years, and I refuse to apologize for that. You shouldn't apologize for taking the time to find out who you are, either.

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