You Need To Get Close With The Strong Girl
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You Need To Get Close With The Strong Girl

It won't be easy, but it will be worth it

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You Need To Get Close With The Strong Girl
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The beauty of most of our relationships in life is that we get to choose them. Aside from family members or coworkers, we get to decide who we want as a friend or as a significant other. We have friends that are like family and acquaintances who we choose to spend time with once in awhile. All of the people we choose to get close with have different personalities and backgrounds and all bring different perspectives into our lives. However, I promise that choosing to love a "strong girl" is one of the best relationship choices you can ever make.

A woman with a strong personality doesn’t do anything in life half-way. Decisions are always made involving the utmost thought and detail; they are never taken lightly. The strong girl is deeply passionate and will have aspirations that go much farther than many people dare to dream. There are days that frustrate her, because she feels like she isn’t achieving the things that she needs to. Sometimes, there are so many things on her plate that she struggles to tackle them all. But, no matter what, she will always be working toward something and will always be there to support your goals.

A strong woman is fiercely loyal. Sometimes, it takes a while for her to warm up to people. She’s used to being let down, because many people aren’t used to taking friendships and relationships as seriously as she does. However, once she trusts you, she will be there for you, 100 percent, no matter what. She will answer her phone at 3 a.m., remain by your side through any hardship, and help you to stay on track when it feels like everything is falling apart. She will want to protect you from people that hurt you, and do whatever to takes to make you happy.

When you get close with her, prepare to expect the unexpected. A day in the life of a passionate woman can sometimes get hectic -- she can go from being extremely happy to extremely upset in a matter of minutes. She will always be a challenge for you, but the more you are there for her, the more she will love you. She needs to know that you will stay through the toughest of times, so she might test you. She will always provide adventure and excitement; nothing will ever get boring.

She will push you to be your best self. Strong girls don’t have patience for people who are flaky. If she knows you well, she probably won’t put up with you being less than your best self. She will always be there to help you if you need it, and be your biggest cheerleader for success. Although it might come off as tough love, she knows what you need to hear, and won’t sugar-coat it.

Getting close with a strong girl isn’t easy. It can be exciting, tumultuous and, sometimes, extremely frustrating. On the days when you want to walk away, force yourself to stay. Those are the times she needs you more than ever. The good news? She will never leave you questioning how she feels. She will tell you if she’s mad, if she’s happy, if she’s scared or if she loves you. She will let you know what she needs. Communication is never a problem with her.

A relationship with a strong, passionate girl is the best kind you can have. It will be filled with loyalty, excitement and love. Every day will be a new adventure, and you both will be constantly learning from one another. It won’t be easy, but once you have her love, you’ll never lose it.

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