It's no doubt that we live in a pretty messed up culture. I've talked to older people who have said they've seen things happen in their adult lives that was never fathomed to happen in their life when they were kids. Our country has divided on so many issues, and we are dealing with the reality of some issues that were declared illegal many years ago. Racism is outlawed and women have rights. Period.

America has also further divided over controversial issues that can be difficult to bring up in conversation with people, which I think is sad. I have strong opinions on issues such as abortion and gay marriage, as do others. As a Christian, I do believe it's important to share what God has to say on controversial issues such as these and others. However, you shouldn't Regardless, how defensive and lashing people are is kinda ridiculous. People should be able to disagree without any blowups.

In addition to the culture brokenness, we can't forget about the unique individual struggles we all face in our own lives. What might be a struggle or temptation for someone might not be for another. It just looks different for every person, and it can be very taxing. A lot of these things are carried internally and can't be seen on the outside.

I have had my fair share of burdens form both myself and the world around me. And yet, I still have found multiple reasons to smile. Kinda weird right? It is weird, to be honest. Sometimes it's hard to not focus on all the problems, especially when they are weighing heavy. I'm thankful for God's promise to sustain me when I give Him my burden. I never want to take that for granted and pray that everyone who reads this article personally knows that truth and promise.

I try to think about all the blessings in my life whenever I'm frustrated, not just because I am an optimistic person. I have learned that it's really not helpful to be constantly dwelling on the negatives. It's important to recognize reality as it is, but it's not helpful to get excessively frustrated and anxious about it. Plus, it's helpful to take a deep breath and walk away from it for a little while if you are able to.

I never want to take my blessings for granted. I have incredible friends, family, and have had great opportunities to see God's creation. I have found enjoyment in the little things, whether it be a cute little coffee shop or the sun shining through my window at just the right angle. I like it when my lipstick matches my shirt and my eyeliner doesn't smudge. I enjoy being around other people who give me life and encourage me to expand my horizons and dream a little. Life is already complicated, as previously mentioned. Don't make it more complicated by ignoring all the reasons you have to smile. Life doesn't have to be perfect to be pretty great.