I was always raised to give a helping hand when asked, but I never knew that was always a negative thing. I do not put myself first in most situations. If someone needs to be helped, I will do it. The word “no” lacks in my verbal dictionary. I worry what people would think of me if I tell them “no” for once.

It is a force of habit that I continually do whatever I can for people if they ask. I am always the person people go to if they need help, if they need a shoulder to cry on, or need a therapist. I will put whatever I am doing aside to make sure the people I care about are helped. I could be doing homework or something important, but no matter what I would be there for anyone. I am by no means saying this is a bad thing. I love being the girl people come to with advice or when they just need to vent. My dorm room has an open door policy because I want everyone to have a place to go when they are down.

I always thought of myself as a caring and compassionate person, but never thought that would end up being one of my weaknesses. I give the lending hand when I should be looking out for my own self. There needs to be a balance in the world. Someday, I may find this said balance and tell someone I am too busy or too tired. I will learn to stand up for myself and be there for people, but also consider my own problems. Until then, you can call me “yes girl”.