The Words I Wish I Would Have Told My Parents Before I Left Home

The Words I Wish I Would Have Told My Parents Before I Left Home

In retrospect, I was selfish. However, I am more aware of your sacrifices now.
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Dear Mom and Dad,

It’s with a heavy heart that I admit that it’s all coming to an end. How do you say goodbye to a home and a childhood that you loved with all of your heart for eighteen years, or to a family that you have been through everything with? You have helped me transition from a little girl to a confident young woman, and I couldn’t be more lucky to have parents like you guys.

You’ve sat through it all. The rec. league games where I couldn’t run four steps without tripping over my own feet, to the middle school spelling bees that droned on for hours and hours, and miraculously to my high school years, where you’ve had to counsel me on everything ranging from basketball to boys. The thing is, you didn’t do it because you “had” to, you did it because you loved me and you loved being there for me, and that means more than any other earthly achievement ever will.

You’ve created the most amazing shoes to fill, and I don’t know how I will ever do it. How do I match such compassion or work ethic? How will I be able to succeed without the people who have caught me time and time again after I have fallen?

I don’t know the answers to these questions, but I do know this: I will mess up. I will make countless mistakes on this journey into adulthood, but I can promise you that I will not allow these mistakes to hinder myself from growing into the woman that you so fervently aspired that I would be.

I know that I excel at writing, and inherently, that means that I am great with words. However, I now find myself at a loss of words to make you understand how much you guys mean to me. Everything that I have ever accomplished is because you both were always there pushing me, encouraging me to fight for what I want no matter what.

I’m about to leave, to begin life as a young adult who has to make her own decisions. But, because of the knowledge, morals and love that you have poured into me, I am ready to face this challenge head on. I can confidently face the world knowing that I have my two greatest supporters by my side.

I'm not afraid to fail anymore.

I know that I am hard to deal with sometimes, the stubborn daughter who never knows when to keep her mouth shut and is always struggling with something. However, I also know that even though you try to hide it, you both face your own struggles. But the thing is, you’ve never stopped working for me, or decided to prioritize your issues above my own. You have always put my siblings and I first, and I just want you to know that I love you more than you could ever comprehend. Your selflessness has not gone unobserved.

Love,

Your Daughter

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Prince Harry's royal wedding is officially over and there won't be another British royal wedding for quite some time now, as Prince George is way too young to start thinking about that. Fortunately, there are plenty of other countries with plenty of other princes that are still eligible bachelors at the moment. Lucky for you, I did my research and compiled a list of all the eligible princes you need to know about know that Prince Harry has tied the knot with Meghan Markle.

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Prince Louis is the third son of the Grand Duke Henri and Duchess Maria Theresa of Luxembourg. He has recently become a bachelor again after his separation with his wife of 10 years, Princess Tessy.

Fun Fact: He graduated from Richmond, The American International University of London with a BA in Communications. He can also speak Luxembourgish (the fact that's even a language is fun fact by itself), French, German, and English fluently.

2. Prince Sebastien of Luxembourg (26)

Prince Sebastien is the youngest child of the Grand Duke Henri and Duchess Maria Theresa of Luxembourg, so if you marry him, you'll probably never actually be queen because he's pretty far removed from the throne. However, he's relatively young and single, so best of luck.

Fun Fact: For some bizarre reason, this prince actually went to college in Ohio. He played rugby and graduated from Franciscan University of Steubenville in 2015. Now, he is back in his home country and is an officer in the Luxembourg Army.

3. Prince Phillipos of Greece and Denmark (34)

You read that correctly, Prince Phillipos is the prince of not one, but two countries. He is the youngest son of King Constantine and Queen Anne Marie of Greece and Denmark. Unfortunately, Greece abolished their monarchy, so he's a prince in name only there.

Fun Fact: Like Prince Sebastien, Prince Phillipos also went to college in the United States. He earned his B.A. in foreign relations from Georgetown University in 2008. Fortunately, for us American girls, he is actually still living in the US and he works in New York City as an analyst at Ortelius Capital.

4. Prince Albert of Thurn and Taxis (34)

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Fun Fact: He's not just a prince. He's also a racecar driver and 10 years ago he was ranked 11th on Forbes Magazine's List of The 20 Hottest Young Royals.

5. Prince Mateen of Brunei (26)

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Fun Fact: Mateen enjoys playing polo, flying in his private plane, cuddling cute wild animals, and keeping up his Insta game with 890k followers. You can follow him @tmski.

6. Sheikh Hamdan bin Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum of Dubai (35)

Sheikh Hamdan also has a killer Instagram with 6.3 million followers. Anyways, Sheikh Hamdan is the billionaire crown prince of Dubai and the second son of Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum, who is the prime minister of the United Arab Emirates and essentially the king of Dubai (Emir). He's actually next in line for the throne because his older brother died in 2015.

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7. Prince Hussein of Jordan (23)

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Fun Fact: Like Prince Phillippos, Prince Hussain also graduated from Georgetown University in Washington D.C.. Also, like Prince Mateen and Prince Hamdan, he's Insta famous with 1.3 million followers and you can follow him @alhusseinjo.

8. Prince Constantine-Alexios of Greece and Denmark (19)

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Fun Fact: He's Prince William's godson, so that's pretty neat. However, if that wasn't cool enough, you might like to know that this Greek/Danish prince was actually born in New York. Oh yeah, you can also follow him on Instagram @alexiosgreece where he has 88.7k followers.

9. Prince Joachim of Belgium (26)

Prince Joachim of Belgium, Archduke of Austria-Este is the third child of Lorenz, Archduke of Austria-Este and Princess Astrid of Belgium. Although he bears the title, "Prince of Belgium," he is also Archduke of Austria-Este, Prince Royal of Hungary and Bohemia, and Prince of Modena. Unfortunately, he'll probably never actually be king in any of these countries as he is ninth in line to the Belgian throne.

Fun Fact: Prince Joachim has degrees in economics, management, and finance, but he decided to join the Nautical School in Brugge after completing college and is currently an officer in the Belgian Navy.

Hope is not lost for all you girls dreaming of finding a Prince Charming that's literally a prince. After reviewing the data, my best advice is to transfer to Georgetown where princes are basically around every corner.

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  6. "Seasons of Love" from "Rent"
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  12. "I Feel Pretty" from "West Side Story"
  13. "The Phantom of the Opera" from "The Phantom of the Opera"
  14. "Good Morning" from "Singin' In The Rain"
  15. "A Whole New World" from "Aladdin"
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  17. "Dancing With Queen" from "Mamma Mia"
  18. "I'll Make a Man Out of You" from "Mulan"
  19. "Belle" from "Beauty and the Beast"
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