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Are you looking to the right people for words of affirmation?

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Ladies, ladies, ladies. We are so silly! This week, my friend and I found ourselves wishing and waiting for words of affirmation from the boys in our life, but upon reading the "Jesus Calling" devotional this morning came to such a reality! Why on earth would we search for words of affirmation from someone other than the Lord? It finally clicked for me this morning why we are truly called the Brides of Christ. God is the boyfriend who has and will never let us down, who never ceases to remind us of our worth and rarity, and will never stop making us feel special.

In a relationship with God, we as women drown in words of affirmation! Psalm 139:14 says, "You are beautiful for you are fearfully and wonderfully made." This is the compliment that simply cannot come from anyone but God. This is the satisfaction that will not be gained from a text or snapchat. Jesus is so consistently making us his priority and fearlessly showing us off. He screams from the rooftops, "she is more precious than jewels and nothing you desire can compare with her," (Proverbs 3:15). One HUGE mistake we make is seeking acceptance from anyone other than and sometimes everyone, but God. Doing this can lead to feeling inferior.

This is not okay. In any worldly relationship we do not hesitate to give all our attention and affection to our partner, so why is it that we do not give God the attention he so constantly deserves? God is forever so faithful and devoted to us. God "put a ring on it" a long time ago. As we get older, the topic of discussion amongst girlfriends is our love life. And if our love life consists of an actual boy and not pints on pints of a love affair with Ben & Jerry's Half Baked and diamonds (after all they are a girl's best friend), we find ourselves beaming and smiling from ear to ear as we talk about them. Instead, I want to be beaming and cheesing and jumping up and down giddy for my relationship with the Lord. By all means, when he calls you cute or compliments your smile, please take it! But our attitudes and daily life should not be dependent on whether he said "Good morning beautiful" or whether he even thought of you for that matter. God is always thinking of us and that thought alone should be enough.

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