Dear Mom,
I'm going to try not to cry while writing this article, but there's no promise I'll be able to make it through without shedding a tear. You've been there for me since the very beginning, and I cannot thank you enough for everything you've sacrificed for me and my siblings. You're a fighter, a supporter, and the most loving woman I've ever met. Moving off to college, I didn't understand how much I needed to see you every day. No matter the distance, hometown visits will be made much more often, and I'm always a phone call away.
I know it was hard letting me go. We've been there for each other through thick and thin, in good times and in bad. You've always been my rock, the person I can count on to listen to my rants and ask for advice. Anytime I'm down or just need a little encouragement, you're always the person I run straight back to. I hope you know how much I appreciate your small favors and good night phone calls. Having someone there paying attention to my problems is something I'll never take for granted.
I first want you to know there's no other stronger woman on earth but you. You're not only my mother but my forever best friend. You never fail to amaze me with any of your abilities. You are a superwoman, capable of achieving any goal you have in mind. I'll always admire your perseverance and strong-willed mindset. You are the woman I strive to be.
Thank you for leading me along the right path. You've always made sure I had everything I need to be successful, and now I have the opportunity to follow my dreams. Whether it be putting food on the table, driving back and forth from practice or providing me a house to live in, you taught me what it means to be selfless. I miss not being able to experience these times with you, but I know you've instilled good qualities for me to make decisions on my own.
While we've shared many memories together, my favorite has to be graduation day. You reminded me what it was like to work hard for an award, and I wouldn't be the person I am now without you. Teaching me to always put God first and academics second, I have been able to share the Word with others while pursuing my passions. Before the ceremony began you made sure I had the perfect party to celebrate with friends and family. Catering my favorite foods, favorite people, and favorite memories - it couldn't have been any better. Walking across the stage that evening, I remember the smile on your face. You were so proud of my achievements, and I was thrilled to see you pleased.
Though I have left the nest, I hope Austin and Amanda will hang on to you tight. I learned from you and all the things we've been through that no one can replace a mother. Teach them the same things you taught me and continue to show them love and support. Try to find the good in every situation and understand that God is in control. Live your life to the fullest as no moment is ever the same.
I hope this article inspires you to keep moving and to stay strong. I love you with all my heart, forever and always.
- Ash
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