I know you are feeling lonely. I know you feel like nobody really gets what you are going through. I also know that you are wrong. I understand that your feelings of confusion, anger, and sadness are stronger than the positive feelings right now but please remember that this is just a phase, you will get through this.

You are not alone. We have all been there. We have all felt the struggle of not exactly knowing what we want or when we want it. We struggle to figure out what we want aside from what others want us to do. We struggle sometimes with the possibility of our choices hurting others plans. With all of this in mind, we need to remember that we are still shaping ourselves and are still finding out who we are, and we need to do what is best for us. This is completely okay.

When it comes down to it, I have realized that this phase is the most important phase in the process of shaping who we are and who we want to be. There are many choices that need to be made about our futures that sometimes we are not ready to handle, but sometimes we are.

I know that you feel like the world is crashing down around you. I know you feel like you don’t have enough energy to get out of bed. I am telling you to do it. Get up, get out of bed. Make yourself look nice, and work it. You are beautiful, confident, and strong regardless of what you are feeling in this moment. You will conquer all of your struggles, and you will grow from it.

This growth is what will shape you, and it depends on the way you react to the struggles you are facing now. Remember this. Remember that you can do this, and then go do it.

Also posted on my blog, Just the Write Life.