I've always associated my holiday breaks with relaxing, spending extra time with friends and family, and going to any and all holiday festivities. This year though, this has hardly been the case.

It's been work, work and more work. Between a job, extracurriculars and internship applications it seems I haven't had much time to myself this break. I've seen my friends a small handful of times and it seems like were all in the same boat at this point of our lives.

When someone can't make it to something, we all understand because we don't have the luxury of many free days anymore--and when we actually do have a free day, we may just want to spend it at home.

Although I miss the days of sitting at home and randomly deciding what I want to do that day, or if I just want to stay home, watch movies and drink coffee, this time in our lives is a signal of something greater.

We're all in the process and life stage of making something of ourselves, and I think there's something really wonderful about that.

Despite seeing each other less, were all working towards the rest our lives and our bright futures.

When you're feeling overworked, or you're missing free time with friends and family, remember why you're doing it, what you're working towards and where it will get you.

I'm not saying to never give yourself a break because there are times when it's just necessary, but realize that this is just a transitional phase.

Even though you have limited leisure time for now, it will make you appreciate extra time with loved ones much more.

Instead of pondering everything you feel like you're missing out on lately, focus on where it's getting you and don't lose sight of your goals.