"Did you find what you were looking for? Did you get robbed?" These are a few phrases my friends say when looking at my room. I have always had a messy room. It is an inherent part of my personality, and I don't see a reason to change that right now. I always thought once I "grew up," whatever that means, I would need a clean room to function. Or that my adult self would just evolve into a person who would rather fold laundry than plan my next adventure. Part of me wishes I could keep my room organized. I agree it looks nicer that way, but for now, it remains elegantly disheveled.
She has too much going on to clean her room.
Perhaps she is too busy and productive in other ways to worry about if her mascaras are organized by brand. Or, maybe she likes to spend her free time doing other things, like yoga or binge watching the Big Brother live feed.She is being herself.
If you meet a girl with a messy room and did not discover this trait by accident, she is not insecure about the fact that she did not get her room pristine before you saw it. She knows that you will, eventually, find out that her room does not look like a showroom from IKEA, and hopes you still like her anyway
She does not need everything to be perfect.
Striving for perfection can be exhausting and is often unrealistic. She understands that life is not perfect and her room reflects thatShe goes with the flow.
The bed did not get made today? That's fine, she will just get back in later anyway.You can see all of her cool stuff.
There are random things, from Polaroids to bumper stickers from foreign countries, all strewn about. If she was organized, you might not have seen this fun and slightly random assortment of nick-nacks.
In a perfect world, do I want a clean room?
Yes, but life is not perfect. It is far from it. For now, in my single young adult life, my room is my own space. As I write this article, there are random guitar picks on my left and Little Corn Island stickers on my right. My room reflects my crazy life, and I would not have it any other way.
