I grew up surrounded by the words “Hook ‘em.” Living in Austin, I knew every word to the UT fight song, and always made sure to get a view of the tower after a big win. When college apps rolled around the summer before my senior year, I thought I wanted to stay in Texas more than anything. I could be close to my family, and I would surely know enough people to never be lonely, I couldn’t see my future going any other way.
I’ve always been a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, but that didn’t make it any easier when I learned I hadn’t been accepted to my favorite Texas schools. I know had no option but to leave the state, and my heart was shattered. It’s funny how life just likes to slap you in the face sometimes. The idea of being further than 2 hours away from home terrified me. I wouldn't have my family, my dog, and most frighteningly, queso. I spent so much time panicking over made-up scenarios, thinking my life would surely fall apart without all the things I was comfortable with. I didn’t take time to appreciate all the perks that came with leaving, because I was so narrowed in on every negative. After plenty of headaches and stress-tears, I turned my view around. This wasn’t the end of everything I knew; it was just the beginning of the unknown.
What they don’t tell you about leaving home is that you have the chance to redefine who you really are. Suddenly you are alone, you don’t know how to do laundry, and dinning hall food has no flavor. Yet, you are given an incredible opportunity to be exactly who you want to be. This is true for college no matter where you go, but especially so when you go somewhere in which the only person who knows you, is you. You have a clean slate with fresh faces. Forcing myself to be social was initially extremely awkward, but well worth it when I made friends and realized that I was branching out more than I ever would have if I was surrounded by people I knew.
In college you get to create a new life for yourself. You will learn to grow into who you truly are. The best part is, all your friends and family will still be home when you go back to see them. You'll have a million new stories to tell and pictures to show everyone. Being away from home doesn't mean those people that you care about so dearly are gone from your life. You'll become a pro at scheduling your day so that you can manage your classwork, your new friends, and FaceTiming mom when the washer ruins your shorts.
I encourage anyone who is scared, to take that leap of faith. Don’t let distance and fear make you miss out on an incredible new adventure. As hard as it may be to leave, you will find your niche and fall in love with whatever school you choose. Expand your horizons, and find a school you love. No matter what people say about your school choice or how it’s “a billion miles away,” finding the place that’s right for you is all that matters.
