Many would describe Jessa as the free spirited, always moving, bohemian girl on the show. She brings a certain unexpected quality to each episode and always keeps everyone around her on their toes. Her personality is both magnetic and alarming, as she is uncontrollable. But all of these qualities, good or bad, are just a few reasons why we secretly want to be her.
1. She, literally, just doesn't care.
Many of us try to be that cool girl we so badly wish we were, but the truth is, we care. Jessa lives each day like it's an adventure and doesn't care what anyone around her is doing. The streets of New York are her domain. I am Jessa, hear me roar!
2. She knows what guys want, and it sounds like it's her.
Forget responsibility and talking about your major; Jessa knows what guys really want are girls that will keep them guessing. Girls who are exciting and, yes, a tad flaky. Our eagerness to be liked by guys can blind us from what really is attractive -- adventure!
3. She is the trendiest person alive.
Can you imagine a life without Facebook? Living in the moment, Jessa connects with the person and the experiences in front of her. We can only imagine this kind of life. Maybe that's what life was like in the '80s, but definitely not now.
4. She's so hip I could puke
We try to keep up with the styles that are "in," but Jessa wears whatever she wants. Whether it be long skirts and high heels, or a messy bun with a kimono, she is workin' it. Her '60s and '70s inspired wardrobe proves that we should all just wear what we like, no matter what people say.
5. She stands up for women and our rights!
Even though she is flaky and uncontrollable, Jessa is in touch with the daily news and the issues that are going on around her. Her intelligence may shock viewers, as she is not in school, but she is wise beyond her years. Picking up a newspaper every once in a while wouldn't hurt us, either.
6. If you go to her for advice, or try to confide in her, she will judge you.
She will give tough love like it's her job because she is a realist. She has traveled and knows the world is a harsh place. Hannah's problems are pretty ridiculous, anyway, so we know she's probably right.
7. She deflects.
This is not the best quality to have, but she ends up never being bothered about her feelings. Her friends hardly hound her if they don't see her for a few days. Marnie can't stand her sometimes, because she just doesn't wear her emotions on her sleeve.
8. She'll smack you back into reality.
A friend that isn't afraid to use violence is a pretty dedicated confidante to have.
9. She can admit to the weird things that go on in all of our heads.
Understanding human nature and all its puzzles is a quality she has continued to possess through each season. Her honesty and ability to sound like a therapist is baffling, and we all kind of wish we had the guts to say half the things Jessa does.
10. Yes, she screws up sometimes, but damn that bun is perfect.
Jessa continues to be flawless and keep it real during all of life's messes and hiccups.
We all want that personality and confidence that attracts everyone to us, guys and friends alike. Jessa isn't perfect but even so, her aura keeps people coming back time and time again. We sometimes lack both honesty and adventure, making us lose ourselves. Living a life of happiness is most important, and this is why we all secretly wish we were Jessa -- floating through every day, and having long, luscious hair that people would literally die for.
