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5 Reasons You Shouldn't Be Ashamed To Be The Sober Friend

It's ok to willingly be the DD.

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5 Reasons You Shouldn't Be Ashamed To Be The Sober Friend

Whether you're not a huge drinker or you just so happen to be the designated driver for a night, you should never feel guilty for not taking that shot of vodka. Easier said than done, I know, but you'll thank yourself the next morning when you're not keeled over the toilet. If you are being peer pressured to do a keg stand, here are five reasons you should stand your ground.

1. Your kidneys will definitely thank you.

Some people handle alcohol better than others, but either way, your kidneys will be affected. Your kidneys are pretty important. Staying sober means another couple of years added to the longevity of your kidney function. No reason to be ashamed of that!

2. There will be no accidental social media posts.

While your friend is sending drunk nudes to his Facebook page, you'll be chilling with the host's cat. Also, since you chose to remain sober, you won't be getting any disappointed phone calls from your parents after sending a "for my eyes only" pic. So sit back, relax, and watch the compilation of cringe photos that end up on the internet.

3. Being the DD is an important job.

It might not always be the most fun thing on the planet, but your friends appreciate that they get to drink. Although you don't get to throw a few back, your friends will, and they'll get home safely after doing so. Something's gotta give and this time, it's your opportunity for fun. However, next time you need a favor, you have some leverage.

4. You'll be able to recall the night's events 

You'll be a part of the very few who will remember the shenanigans that happened the following day. That's A LOT of power to possess — wield it wisely. You could make up an insane story about the party and no one would be able to prove you wrong!

5. There is less chance of any slip-ups. 

Drinking brings on a whole set of consequences, but because you're sober, you'll be much more aware of your surroundings. You will be less likely to have a risky hookup or a sketchy encounter with anyone at the party. Overall, you'll be making much better decisions than those who are drinking.

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