Relationships are tricky and I am definitely not saying that I know a whole lot about them, but what I am saying is that I think it is a good thing to spend some time apart from your significant other. I know that you probably want to spend as much time together as possible, but the time you spend apart may actually be just as beneficial to growing your relationship! So here are some reasons why your time apart is a good thing...
1. You do not become dependent on them.
You are still the same you and you should try not to become dependent on this new person for happiness. If they are busy, you should not be moping around waiting for them to call you back, you won't forget how to function on your own.
2. You don't change your whole life around for a new relationship.
Definitely do not become one of those people that ditch all of their friends for this new relationship. The things that were important to you before you started the relationship should remain important to you still.
3. You have alone time to process your true feelings.
It's hard to evaluate how you feel about someone if they are constantly attached to your hip. Reflecting on what you are looking to get out of this relationship can be very beneficial for you and your partner.
4. You actually have a chance to miss them.
The saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" might have some actual merit. If you're always together, you won't have time to see if you actually miss them when they are gone. You will also have more things to talk about if you are not constantly together.
So although most people would love to spend every second of every day with their new significant other, don't forget to live your normal life. Don't lose yourself and who you are for this new person. If they don't like the real you, then the relationship is a lie anyways. You shouldn't have to change yourself to make your partner like you more. A relationship is not about changing your life, it is about sharing the life you have with someone who will let you grow and reach your true potential.
