College Is Really Hard, But I Love It

College Is Really Hard, But I Love It

I cannot wait to see where college takes me.

College is hard. I am not afraid to admit that. It does not mean that I am struggling in college. It does not mean that I do not like college. In fact, I love college. I love the fact that college is hard.

I enjoy challenges and college is the perfect time to explore and grow.

College has really brought me out of my comfort zone and I am thankful for that.

Moving almost 2000 miles away from my family and my home was an obstacle for me. I have never been separated from my family for such an extended period of time. During my first two months of college, I missed home frequently. Daily calls to my mom and Facetiming my sister and close friends certainly helped me transition better in college. I am lucky to have such a wonderful support group that I can turn to whenever things get tough. Even though I miss my family and friends very much, I am glad that I decided to attend an out-of-state college. With these new experiences, I am able to learn more about the world around me and more about myself.

Academics in college is also vastly different from high school. I am not used to having almost a hundred students in one lecture hall. In high school, the maximum number of students in my class was thirty. When I was registering for classes this summer, I was scared that the class size was going to impact the learning environment. However, after actually attending class, I realized that class sizes do not play a huge factor. I noticed that have more people present does not actually impact the teaching quality.

The way classes are formatted also differed between high school and college. Since high school classes were smaller, learning was much more one-on-one and personalized. There were more hands-on activities and the teachers always ensured that each student understood the concepts before moving on to new topics.

In contrast, college courses are more lecture-based. The professors are very passionate and want their students to succeed but they do not slow down for students. In short, there are higher expectations for college students. I realize now that I actually prefer the learning style in college.

In addition to academics, I also have to worry about taking care of myself. Since I am from the west coast, adjusting to Atlanta’s weather has been a struggle. Throughout my childhood, I have been accustomed to Arizona’s dry heat and non-existent winter.

Before I moved to Atlanta, I never owned a raincoat or a sweater. I am not used to Atlanta’s chilly mornings and evenings and comfortable afternoons. After getting sick multiple times, I finally learned how to adapt to Atlanta's unpredictable weather. From this experience, I learned health is just as if not more important than academics.

Even though college is hard, I look forward to each day with a bright smile on my face.

I love how each day is a new adventure. College is exactly what I expected and more! I cannot wait to see where college takes me.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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