In our lives, we meet so many amazing people and begin wonderful lifelong friendships. Every once in a while, however, we encounter toxic relationships with people. Friends are supposed to lift you up, encourage you, support you, and love you. If your "friends" are doing the complete opposite of those qualities, it's time to drop them like it's hot. So many times in my life I have found myself clinging to unhealthy relationships with white knuckles. These people are not healthy for us and it is completely okay to let them leave your life. Here's why it's okay to say goodbye.

1. They don't support you.

If you confide in your friends and tell them things you are planning on doing and they respond with completely unsupportive responses, it's time to let them go. Friendships should always be supportive and uplifting with whatever you are choosing to do with your life. (Unless it's hard drugs, then they probably know what they're talking about and are trying to help you.)

2. They are constantly negative.

I'm not saying I am 100% positive on every waking second of every day, but being dragged down with constant negativity from others can really put a damper in my mood. If all you're hearing is complaining about everything, it is okay to let them go. I can only take so much negativity in my life before I find myself becoming more and more like the negative Nelly I'm spending my time with. Optimism is key, I always say. (Or, at least fake it 'til you make it. I always say that too.)

3. They hurt you.

This one goes without saying. Toxic people will hurt you again and again and then convince you that you really need them. It's a manipulative tactic and I can say I have fallen victim to it more than once. Remind yourself that you do not need them, especially if they are hurting you repeatedly.

All in all, toxic friendships and relationships are completely unhealthy and you are not selfish for letting these people go. It is okay. Remind yourself that your happiness and mental health go above all else.