1. You become more independent
You spent the majority of your life under the constant care of someone else. Someone was there to remind you to do chores, your homework, to guide you and was responsible for you. Now you’re away and you have to learn to become responsible enough to do your chores without being told to. You no longer have someone else pushing you to go to class, you have to do it on your own. You’ll make mistakes along the way, but that’s the best way to learn.
2. You rediscover yourself by being introduced to new ideas
Your hometown might have had a set of norms and shared beliefs among those who lived there. You may not even realize there could be a status quo where you live, until you travel and live somewhere else. Moving away from home or going away to college with students and professors from all over can broaden your horizons. You become more knowledgeable about different beliefs and ideas, you learn to become more tolerant and respectful of others. You may even start to question some of the beliefs and the status quo of your hometown, which can begin an exciting journey of personal growth and self discovery.
3. You begin to find out what you’re really passionate about
After going through changes you may either become even more passionate about your intended major, or you’ll discover what you originally planned to study isn’t for you. You might find a new subject you really are passionate about. All of the above is alright because it shows you learn to follow your own passion and striving for a degree you will truly be happy with.
4. You learn to have a greater appreciation for genuine connection and who your true loved ones are
Long distant relationships are never easy, platonic or romantic. Traveling away from a community you’ve spent so long with can be difficult. However, this allows you to learn who cares enough to keep in contact with you or who tries to make plans with you when you come back to visit. It’ll make you appreciate your true friendships more and make visiting your loved ones all the sweeter. Your newfound independence will also allow you to further value the work your guardians put forth while raising you. You will find relief in knowing that no matter what, you will have a place filled with love and support for you.
