Why Flowers Shouldn't Be Used As A Symbol Of Love
Start writing a post
Relationships

Why Flowers Shouldn't Be Used As A Symbol Of Love

"We had a vision though. Now we dead roses." — Blackbear

314
Why Flowers Shouldn't Be Used As A Symbol Of Love
Adriana Gil

Flowers are beautiful and all, but should they really symbolize love? Should something that could mean so much to someone be described in the temporary existence of nature?

Let's recap that real quick. I said "temporary"... why? The answer is quite simple if you've ever been given flowers or know what happens when they are cut from their roots: flowers die.

Whoever came up with the tradition of giving flowers to the one you love, didn't think that through. I used to love receiving them — until I was given a wooden flower. Wooden flowers don't die and that's when I realized that something that symbolizes love, shouldn't die. If you want to portray that "forever love" you've always wanted, flowers aren't for you. No matter how beautiful they are, they will die, and that's a terrible way to represent the beautiful love you may have for someone. You don't want to have your love die out, so why force this power of love on an object that can't help but die out eventually.

This goes to show how sometimes, we emphasize love with all the wrong things. We feel the need to compare our love to objects and even the love of others. For some reason, our generation has given up on having a love that is original and pure and has focused on complying to how others envision love.

Now I'm not saying you should stop giving and receiving flowers, all I'm saying is that there are other ways to express your love (that don't end with a tragic end). Put your creativity to work and find symbolism of love in new things, things that truly symbolize your relationship and not the relationship of others.

After all, the idea of giving flowers as a symbol of love had to start from somewhere. I just want to know you'll love me even in the winter of our love when flowers don't grow.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

935410
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 10 Reasons My School Rocks!

Why I Chose a Small School Over a Big University.

112165
man in black long sleeve shirt and black pants walking on white concrete pathway

I was asked so many times why I wanted to go to a small school when a big university is so much better. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure a big university is great but I absolutely love going to a small school. I know that I miss out on big sporting events and having people actually know where it is. I can't even count how many times I've been asked where it is and I know they won't know so I just say "somewhere in the middle of Wisconsin." But, I get to know most people at my school and I know my professors very well. Not to mention, being able to walk to the other side of campus in 5 minutes at a casual walking pace. I am so happy I made the decision to go to school where I did. I love my school and these are just a few reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lots of people sat on the cinema wearing 3D glasses
Pinterest

Ever wonder what your friend meant when they started babbling about you taking their stapler? Or how whenever you ask your friend for a favor they respond with "As You Wish?" Are you looking for new and creative ways to insult your friends?

Well, look no further. Here is a list of 70 of the most quotable movies of all time. Here you will find answers to your questions along with a multitude of other things such as; new insults for your friends, interesting characters, fantastic story lines, and of course quotes to log into your mind for future use.

Keep Reading...Show less
New Year Resolutions

It's 2024! You drank champagne, you wore funny glasses, and you watched the ball drop as you sang the night away with your best friends and family. What comes next you may ask? Sadly you will have to return to the real world full of work and school and paying bills. "Ah! But I have my New Year's Resolutions!"- you may say. But most of them are 100% complete cliches that you won't hold on to. Here is a list of those things you hear all around the world.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Ultimate Birthday: Unveiling the Perfect Day to Celebrate!

Let's be real, the day your birthday falls on could really make or break it.

68540
​different color birthday candles on a cake
Blacksburg Children's Museum

You heard it here first: birthdays in college are some of the best days of your four years. For one day annually, you get to forget about your identity as a stressed, broke, and overworked student, and take the time to celebrate. You can throw your responsibilities for a day, use your one skip in that class you hate, receive kind cards and gifts from loved ones and just enjoy yourself.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments