Whether it be a sibling, a cousin, or one of each, we all have those family members in our lives who become our closest friends. The words "cousin," "sister," "brother," and "friend" seem like such trivial words to describe what they mean to you. These people are invaluable to us. Their worth is like gold. They are irreplaceable. These family members make the best friends because your relationship with them runs so much deeper than just an ordinary friendship.
1. They know us better than anyone.
These family members have known is our entire lives. They know our moods, interests, pet peeves, and fears. Chances are,, you know all of theirs too. This creates a deep bond between you that is unique to being a part of your family.
2. They accept you and love you just as you are.
These friends/family members know all of your weird quirks and still choose to be seen with you in public. They know about all of the strange things you've done over the years, and they still love you. Even if you fight and disagree, they'll never leave your side because that's what family is for.
3. They know all of the family drama.
Whether it's a fight with your mom, or another crazy cousin trying to stir up trouble, these friends know it all. They know exactly how your mom can be when she is mad, how to get your grandma to stop grilling you with questions, and how to get that crazy cousin to back off. Your other friends may think your family is nuts, but when your best friend is a member of your family, they understand better than anyone -- they're living through it with you.
4. You share the best memories and stories.
When your closest friend is a member of your family, you have endless amounts of silly stories and special memories together. They've experienced life with you every step of the way! Your scrapbooks and photo albums are full of pictures of you guys together on vacation, at birthday parties, and having the most epic sleepovers at grandma's!
5. They've always been there, and they always will be.
You've been through everything together. First heartbreaks, the loss of a grandparent, graduations, weddings, the end of a long relationship, and everything in between... You've faced it all together. Through whatever life throws at you, you've got each other's back. You're family, it's what you do. From your happiest moments to your hardest of days, they'll never leave you. You know that no matter what, you can count on each other.
If you are blessed enough to have someone in your family as one of your very best friends, hold on tight and love them with all of your heart, because you are more fortunate than you could ever know.
