Going through high school can be one of the hardest things you’ll have to go through. From “fitting in,” to bullies, grades, sports and of course relationships. What could make that harder? Well for Kate, being a transfer to her new school with no friends could only make it harder. In the movie “John Tucker Must Die,” we watch Kate's journey through high school and the obstacles she goes through to break one boy’s heart. This movie has multiple life lessons throughout it and there are important messages every girl needs to know.

1. No matter what, your mom is always right.

Through high school you are going to meet so many new people. Some are going to be your friends forever, and some are only going to be around when they need something from you. I guarantee you your mom will be able to pick out those friends the second she meets them. I promise the only opinion you’ll value is the one your mother gives you.

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2. Yes, chocolate does make everything better.

No matter the time of the month, chocolate is always the answer. Everyone deserves a little treat and I recommend that be any form of chocolate. It’s the best comfort food there is. So you go girl, eat that whole pint of ice cream.

3. Always be yourself.

In "John Tucker Must Die," the girls groom Kate to be the “perfect girl.” They change her and treat her like their Barbie doll just to get back at their ex-boyfriend. Kate wanted to fit in so bad that she let these girls turn her into someone she wasn’t and have this fake life. As important as it may sound to be popular, does it even mean anything if these friends only like you for who you’re pretending to be? Always be yourself, you’re one of a kind.

4. Periods will be your worst enemy.

Whether you are at that point in your life or approaching it, you need to learn to adapt to this new factor in your life. You may have to skip out on certain plans with friends or even miss school. Of course, you can relate back to #2 and stuff your face with chocolate but unfortunately you are going to be in pain, crabby and always crying…always. Most importantly boys won’t understand and they won’t want to hear about it either. That’s why it’s so great when the girls trick John into consuming estrogen.

5. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

As you may know, the plot of the movie is to get revenge on John Tucker, who had three girlfriends at the same time. Although the girls did not know at first, they eventually found out. You never know when a boy is going to try to pull off something like that and you need to be aware. People will know about it and not feel the need to inform you of it either. If you ever find yourself in that situation, stand up for yourself. You do not deserve to be treated that way. Know your worth and leave them in your past.

6. You’ll find love when you least expect it.

Sometimes when you’re so busy and focused on school, athletics, work or interests, you let the world pass you by. High school is such a great experience, don’t get caught up in any one thing. While Kate is so busy trying to make these girls her friends, and make John’s life a living hell, she’s missing out on Scott, John’s brother. It’s obvious they have a connection and would be happy together but Kate is so focused elsewhere she can’t see it. Love is always right around the corner, and if you don’t pick up your head and see it you could miss out on something special.

7. Revenge isn’t ALWAYS the right answer.

Cliques do exist, mean girls are real, and rumors do spread. High school can be full of drama and your feelings may get hurt. The things these girls do to John should not ever be done to anyone, as what John did shouldn’t be done to others either. Luckily it was a movie and John’s feelings didn’t get extremely hurt but you never know what is going on in someone’s life outside of school. Words hurt and can have a bigger effect on someone than you may think. Always be the bigger person. Talk things out and lend out a hand to those who need someone to lean on. Everyone is fighting their own battle.

Watching these students make their way through high school will help you with your experience, too. Having a diverse group of characters lets you connect with them and see how they deal with everyday situations. That is why I recommend this film to all, especially teenage girls. Beside the fact "John Tucker Must Die" will have you laughing endlessly and reaching for the remote to play it again.