There's been a lot of publicity in the news lately about Taylor Swift's new relationship with Tom Hiddleston and how it all seems to forward after the much recent break up with her ex boyfriend Calvin Harris. Did she cheat on him, did they meet before, etc. etc. In all reality who actually really cares and is actually bothered by Taylor Swift's relationship problems.

This obsession is not new to the face of the public. The media has been following Swift since her very first celebrity boyfriend Joe Jonas and continued to trail her romances over the last couple of years. They recorded every detail of dates, fights and even of course the breakups. Most ending with the idea that Taylor Swift caused her relationships to end in some abrupt way.

I can always remember some aspect of Taylor Swift's relationship being in the media and of course the articles, and the pictures were appeasing. When putting yourself into Swift's shoes the light we shown on her romances was just way too much for anyone. How could anyone live a normal life, let alone maintain a good relationship when constantly being put under fire by the media filled with gossip, and lies. At the time we read these articles we don't realize how the information was obtained or how the picture was taken. It nearly reaches our mind that most of these things were obtained out of privacy.

Does our obsession with Taylor Swift's relationship revolve around the fact that almost all of her hit songs are about broken relationship? That's clearly the only common sense I can think of when it comes to our obsession with who she's dating and how her relationships are going. We are just hoping that maybe her relationships will end so we could get another relatable song for ourselves. Which in reality should not even make up the importance of music anyway.

I can't understand the need for media to follow Taylor Swift’s relationships and who's to know that their involvement in them caused some of the breakups to occur? Could you imagine what it's like to have your relationships documented at every move and have no privacy? Of course I cannot even imagine that.

Instead of worrying about her own relationships problems we should try and focus on our own lives. We should focus on larger issues in society then which famous celebrity Taylor Swift is going to date or if she will stay with a certain guy for how long. Let's focus on larger issues at hand, and let all these celebrities including Taylor Swift live lives at least comparable to normal.