For me, the start of summer also brings the start of the one and only: dad projects. I am going to guess many of you know what I am talking about and with that, I am going to go even further and guess that quite often when you hear the old "I could use your help for just a minute" from your dad, a small part of you dies inside, in that moment. You're not alone, trust me; however, I feel it's time to give some credit to these projects.
1. We learn valuable skills.
I love knowing how to paint, tile, install a wood floor, hang sheet rock, tape, sand, build a pond, run a tractor, and the list goes on. These skills are important because they help us realize we can be pretty handy for ourselves.
2. We notice little issues before they become big problems.
"Your car wasn't making that noise a week ago, you might want to get it checked out."
3. We know our tools.
Your boyfriend's (or girlfriend's) dad can ask you to grab the adjustable wrench or channel lock and you'll know what he's talking about.
4. We aren't afraid to help out.
Quite often someone needs an extra hand, dad projects give us the knowledge and confidence to hop in and lend one.
5. They build character.
Really, they do. At my house, it isn't a dad project until someone bleeds. A little blood never hurt anyone and we always get a good laugh when the blood starts dripping.
6. We are proud of what we accomplish.
It never gets old to say, "Hey, I spent all day tilling, leveling, seeding, packing, and watering that lawn and look how great it turned out!" I'm also more than happy to talk about the fire pit we built together and the rustic outhouse we made Mom for Mother's Day.
7. We get wicked tan lines.
I am literally a redneck.
8. And even wickeder stories.
Remember that time we were building the retaining wall by the fire pit and Mom and I had to sit on the front of the tractor while going up the hill road because the rock we dug out was so big? Yep, me too.
9. We spend quality time with our dad's.
As much grumbling as I do, some of my greatest memories with my dad have from from these dad projects and I wouldn't trade them for the world. My dad does a whole lot for me so if I can help him for a few hours, whether it be a blizzard (no joke) to chop some wood or a heat index over 100 degrees (also no joke) to move some rocks, you can bet I will. Dad projects have given me a new appreciation for what's around me and they're one more way to get outside and enjoy the outdoors.
With that, here's a little something for my dad...
Dad, I want to thank you for dragging me outside to help you out with your projects. I know we all give you a ton of crap about your projects but they really are important and they do make a difference. I appreciate everything you have taught me and I really am happy to be able to help you. I apologize for not always being up to your level but I promise I do my best. I also apologize for any complaining I do, I'll try to keep that to a minimum. Your projects are worth it in every way. Thank you and I love you.
"Chop your own wood and it will warm you twice."
