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10 Reasons Why Your Brother Is Actually Your First Real Friend

No matter what they do, you have no choice but to love them.

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10 Reasons Why Your Brother Is Actually Your First Real Friend
Brooke Emery

Having a brother is certainly an unique experience to say the least. Though brothers are likely to push your buttons, over-all brothers will also have your back and defend you against others. Since brothers tend to be (over) protective and care deeply, these over-sized teddy bears make for a more enjoyable life and turn out to be your first real best friend.

#1. He's Always There When You Need Advice

Often times, brothers tend to approach situations head on, it’s refreshing to ask their opinion. Brothers will always listen to you (or at least pretend to anyways), without blowing everything out of proportion.

#2. He's Easy To Hang Out With

Your brother is a great person to hang out with whenever you need a break from your own social circle of friends your age. As long as you drive, you pay, but he gets to choose where you go that is.

#3. He's Got Your Back

Sure, brothers are known to push our buttons, make fun of you, and otherwise drive you crazy, but when someone else tries to do the same thing, your brother will be there. Even if he’s not the biggest guy on the playground, your brother will do all it takes to scare your bullies away.

#4. He Can Help You In The Dating Scene

Whether older or younger, brothers are usually full of tips to help you seem smoother than you actually are. Especially when you’re trying to impress someone. From cooking tips to creative date ideas, brothers know how to give you a boost.

#5. He Makes You Laugh

Boys are much happier playing games and laughing than getting wrapped up in petty drama. When life has you down, it’s likely that your brother has something new to make you chuckle (even if it is a joke about you!)

#6. He Will Be Straight Up With You

Brothers are also incredible because when you have a problem, they’re going to tell it to you straight up. Boys rarely feel the need to sugar-coat things, so your brother can be the perfect subject when you need a straight answer. This is especially helpful for when you're dress shopping because he will definitely tell you if you look fat or not.

#7. He Will Eat More Than You

Brothers are also the perfect person to go out and pig out with. Where sisters or female friends might be more conscious of what they’re eating, brothers are likely to just dig in. Brothers are always willing to grab a snack, without an occasion needed. (But again, you have to pay)

#8. He's Competitive

A little friendly competition never hurt anyone, right? Brothers tend to be competitive, which can actually be a good thing. As long as you can bring your “A” game too, a competitive sibling can actually help push you to be your best, or at least better than before.

#9. He Will Always Cheer You Up

Love them or hate them, brothers are really just big teddy bears. So much so, that when they see you're upset, their first instinct is usually to get you out of your funk. Having someone around who wants to cheer you up is incredibly helpful on days when you don’t feel like yourself. Plus sometimes they give nice hugs (when they're not bear hugs that crush your spine.)

#10. They Know You The Best

They've been there since day one so let's face it, they know all your secrets.

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