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When Your Friends Are More Interesting Than You

If you find your dull self surrounded by interesting people, follow these tips

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When Your Friends Are More Interesting Than You
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One of my closest friends in college also happens to be the most interesting I person I know and I often feel dull in comparison. College is so full of fascinating, multi-talented, intelligent people and it can be overwhelming always interacting with these people who seem so much better. If you find yourself surrounded by people more interesting than yourself, here are some tips to make the most of these friendships and also feel more interesting yourself.

1. Ask Questions

One of the keys of being a great conversationalist is learning how to ask the right questions. I often worry about boring other people and feel as if I have nothing to contribute to the conversation. But the thing is, most people prefer to do the talking, especially when they are the topic. If you are completely lost in a conversation, ask questions. It will show that you care about what they have to say and make the person enjoy talking to you more. Additionally, you will likely learn something that will make you more interesting the next time you talk to someone else.

2. Don't compare

Surrounding yourself with riveting and accomplished people can sometimes lead to self-esteem issues as it is inevitable to compare yourself with your friends. Don't do it. When you find yourself comparing yourself to others, push away those thoughts. Even if it doesn't seem like it, you are amazing.Those people wouldn't hang out with you if they didn't think you were interesting.

3. Don't brag and be yourself

People often have a tendency to brag about their accomplishments or embellish their life when they feel insecure or inferior. However, this rarely impresses people and can come off as fake. If you want to be interesting, be yourself. Feel confident in who you are and show people your true side.

3. Go out and do interesting things

If you aren't feeling interesting enough, make a change. Find what it is that makes the people you find interesting so interesting. Do they have a lot of knowledge? Read more or find ways to learn. Do they have fun stories? Go out and have an adventure. Does it seem like they always have something smart or witty to say? Practice critical thinking to help you with responses. Take having interesting friends as a call to become more interesting yourself.

4. Pick up a new hobby

A unique hobby can definitely make you more interesting. Learn an instrument, such as a guitar, or take up juggling or a new game. It will give you something to talk about and give you joy.

5. Remember your worth

Everyone's story is unique and interesting. Find what makes you different and capitalize on it. Discover your passions and pursue them. Find happiness and joy within your self and it will translate as being more interesting.

Having fascinating, intelligent friends is great, but sometimes it can be a struggle when you feel like you just can't compete. Finding confidence and happiness within yourself, as well as what you are passionate about, is the key to fitting in with these fascinating people, people who probably find you just as interesting.


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