If you stay in your own lane, I'll stay in mine is the number one rule everyone should live by. I never understood why people find other people lives so intriguing that they make it a topic of discussion. If we learned to unite and tend to our own garden and quit trying to figure out what is growing in the next person's garden, the world would be a much better place. I was watching the Shahs of Sunset and Golnesa made a powerful statement, "If they reach out to me I will be there for them one hundred percent; until that day comes, I'm not involving myself." I know her other friends were concerned for their friend, but there comes a point in time that you have to allow them the space and opportunity to let you in. It's all in boundaries and knowing your limits and not taking it overboard to where you are making a scene and looking like an imbecile.
How can one withhold information about themselves, but are so willing to give up information about others? If it isn't putting you in any kind of danger why would anyone find pleasure in others' affliction. You have to remember that whatever you put out in the universe will return back to you. For the actions that you perform, you can't choose the consequence that come your way. Just make sure you know who is around you (your real friends) and know that what happens in the circle stays in the circle. It is none of my business what you do on your personal time, neither is it any of your business what I do with mine. Do you think these celebrities sit around worrying about some of the ridiculous stories that come out about them? One thing is certain, and two things are for sure: they are still making money while you figure out if they are pregnant, is there trouble in their relationship or why they cheated on the spouse? Or you make a big production out of what a person does with their live because you don't know how to feel about how they want to live their life?
At the end of the day you have to wish that person the best and hope and pray that everything works out for them. One thing I've learned is to be the best support system a person can have. It's not up to you to understand but to simply be there.
