When People Take Advantage Of You

When People Take Advantage Of You, You Can't Run Away From It

Of course, you can be nice, but not too nice. Don't take it the wrong way.


I am a victim. I am one of those nice girls who get taken for granted.

People tell me I'm too nice. I do what I'm supposed to do. Shit happens, and I deal with it. I live my life, I go to work, I get done what I'm supposed to get done, and I call it a day.

When I don't even know it, I get taken advantage of. It flies over my head without me noticing. I am a daily victim.

I've always been nice to others ever since I was a kid. I cared more about everybody else before I cared about myself. I let things go without consequence if I was ever let down. I went out of my way to please others. I made sure others were happy first.

But I need to be happy, too.

I always forget about myself, my feelings, my life. They never mattered before everything else. That's how it works. Pleasing everyone first so I can feel satisfied was the right thing to do.

It's really not the right thing to do.

When people take advantage of you, and you feed into it, they are going to continue those behaviors. It's almost like you're enabling something without any control, and you give permission. Access denied... permission no more.

It's not going to happen as often anymore. I'm now realizing that it hurts. I mean, why would it feel if it ever happened to them?

I'm tired of people taking advantage of me. I'm tired of being too nice. It's actually getting really old, people getting away with it all just from me smiling, giving the OK.

There's a difference between being nice and being TOO nice. Of course, you can be nice, but not too nice. Don't take it the wrong way. You can smile, but you're also allowed to be assertive. You can laugh and get along, but you're also allowed to say "no".

Let someone else do it for a change, leave it up to them. It's hard because worrying is normal. Instead of running away and doing it yourself, face it and fight back.

Care about yourself for a change; you are in control of your own life.

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6 Important Must Knows For Dating Sassy And Sarcastic Girls

Brace yourselves boys, she's a tough one.

Dating a girl with a big personality can be tricky. They are some of the most amazing girls but to keep them, one needs to understand them. Here are six important things you must be aware of before you give your heart to a sassy and sarcastic girl.

1. Stubborn

She is going to be the most stubborn creature you will ever meet. I say "creature" because she might actually scare you with how much she refuses to back down until you have full proof she is wrong. And if you can’t prove her wrong, just suck up your pride and let her be right or she’ll never quit. But just remember that she’s simply passionate about whatever it is and you should be proud of her for that.

2. Bluntness

She is going to be blunt. So be prepared to hear the truth. She isn’t going to care how mad you get, if you’re being rude, she won’t be afraid to put you in your place. If your choice of clothing isn’t matching, she’ll tell you. Whatever it is, she isn’t going to keep the truth from you. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes she’s just a little too straightforward.

3. Sensitivity

Be careful sometimes with your choice of words. Though she is blunt, she is also sensitive. Her sarcastic personality is sometimes just a defense mechanism because she fears opening up. She worries a lot and continues to ponder the things you say. Remind her she is loved.

4. Friends

She is going to have a lot more guy friends than she will have girl friends. Why? Because guys tend to find more humor in her sarcasm and don’t take it so personal, whereas other girls take it as she’s being serious and just rude. However, don’t be jealous because trust me, you’re 100 percent hers and those guy friends are just that — friends.

5. Insults

She’s not going to flirt with you by giggling and blushing and calling you cute. She’s going to call you an idiot and smack you across the shoulder or back because to her, that’s easier than being all giddy and speechless over how much she likes you. And even when she’s calling you names, which really is in all fun and games, she doesn’t mean it seriously, she’s actually just saying “I love you” in her own special language.

6. Shorty

If she’s short in addition to being sassy and sarcastic, you’re in for a big treat with her. She is not only going to be full of fast wit, but she is going to have so much spunk in her you won’t know what to do. She will be so feisty that she won’t be afraid of anything or anyone and you yourself won’t even know how to handle her. That’s what makes her special.

It takes a certain type of person to be able to give their heart to someone who can so easily break it with their strong headed personality. But a sarcastic and sassy girl is going to be the one girl who is going to love you with all that she has. Treat her right, and she’ll treat you right.

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