When You Give Someone A Fishing Pole

When You Give Someone A Fishing Pole

You teach them more than fishing itself.

Since I can remember, I’ve been going on a lake, a river, or the nearest pond to go fishing. One of the first memories I have is of me going fishing with my dad at our cabin and since then, I’ve been a girl who loves fishing. It’s been the thing that brings me many memories with my dad. It’s been the thing that I do to clear my head. It’s been the thing that I share with my family. It’s been the one thing I’ve continued on with since I made my first cast. I’ve gone through many passions in my life, but fishing has been that thing that I’ve done since I was little and I will continue doing even when I have my own kids one day. But if it’s the one thing I realized the most about fishing, it’s more than fishing. When you give someone a fishing pole, you give them more than a newly learned passion.

When you’re about 4 years old, staying still is not possible. You’re constantly wanting to find a new adventure and see what you can and cannot do. But fishing gives you something to do while giving you patience. Fishing is a constant waiting game. Catching a fish doesn’t always take one cast and one reel in. It can take hundreds of casts before you get a fish or it can take just a few. On those days where the fish aren’t biting, you learn patience is your best friend. Just when you want to give up, you’ll get a bite. Fishing has taught me patience at a young age where I couldn’t grasp the idea of patience.

This may sound silly, but fishing has also taught me that if you’re doing something amazing, take pictures. Because if you don’t take pictures and have them for proof, no one will believe you. You can struggle with this big fish that almost brought you out of your boat, but if you don’t bring that fish up and snap a photo, no one will believe. I’ve also learned to buy a waterproof camera for these times because phones can drop into the water when you’re not paying attention. Show off those great adventures of fishing with proof. Because if you don’t, your grand adventure will just be categorized as another silly “fishing story”.

The biggest lesson I’ve learned from fishing is to take a moment to soak in the beautiful nature surrounding me. Fishing brings silence even at times when you go with a group of people. In those times, I’ve learned to enjoy the silence and savor the sight of the still water, the sun shining over the water, the sound of the birds chirping, and the feel of that slight breeze. This planet is so beautiful and with busy lives, we forget how breathtaking it truly is. We neglect the beauty while we should be giving it more attention. Fishing has taught me to take in the silence, enjoy it, and love what is around you. It has taught me that life can be simple if you just take a moment and relax.

Fishing has taught me so much, but most importantly it has brought me the best of memories. It has given me precious time with my dad. It has given me patience, love of the simple things, the constant reminder to take photos of amazing things, and to overall enjoy the great outdoors. My dad passed on a passion of his that he got from his family and I hope to do the same for my kids one day. But in the meantime, I will continue to enjoy fishing with the people I love and improve on something that I’ve come to love. When you give someone a fishing pole, you give them the catch of their life.

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21 Lies College Students Tell Their Parents

I can almost guarantee that you have used at least five of these.


Let's be honest. College is the best time of your life for a lot of reasons, and maybe you should not tell your mom all of them when she calls. I can almost guarantee that you have used at least five of these, and the others — maybe you should try next time!

1. "I can't talk now, I'm in the library."

Typically used when the student is too hungover to talk.

2. "Gotta go now, I'm walking into class."

Then hit play on Netflix.

3. "I think it might be food poisoning."

Was it the food, or all of that alcohol? Your symptoms sound more like a hangover to me.

4. "No, I didn't just wake up."

It is 4 p.m. and, yes, you did.

5. "I need more money for laundry and food."

Meaning, "I need more money for things I don't think you will give me money for."

6. "I never skip class!"

When we use this one, it usually does not refer to anything before 11 a.m.

7. "I studied all night for that test!"

If by "studied all night" you mean you watched TV shows in the library, then, yes, all night.

8. "Everyone failed that test."

And by everyone, I mean me and my friend who did not go to sleep until 3 a.m.

9. "I'm walking home from breakfast with my friends."

Yeah, OK. You are just lucky she cannot see last night's outfit and the high heels you are carrying. We know where you have been.

10. "Potbelly's is a restaurant."

I mean, they may sell tacos, but I'm not sure I would call it a restaurant.

11. "I go to Cantina's for the Nachos."

I hope that is not the only reason but, hey, you do you.

12. "The $40 charge on the card from last Saturday? That was for school supplies!"

Yeah, right. It was for a new dress.

13. "Nobody goes out on weeknights, especially not me."

We all know grades come first, right?

14. "I can't remember the last time I went out!"


15. "I make my bed regularly"

About as often as I clean the bathroom.

16. "I did not say 'Margarita Monday,' I said I went to 'Margaret's on Monday'!"

Following the use of this lie, do not post any pictures on social media of you with a margarita.

17. "I use my meal plan, and eat in the dining hall all the time."

As you scarf down Chick-fil-A.

18. "I eat healthy!"

For those without a meal plan who have to grocery shop on their own, we all know you spend $2 on a 12-pack of Ramen noodles and the rest on a different kind of 12-pack.

19. "No, I don't have a fake ID."

OK, "John Smith," and where exactly in Wyoming are you from?

20. "I'm doing great in all of my classes."

We use this one because you cannot see our grades online, anymore.

21. "I did not wait until the last minute to start on this."

We all know that if you start a paper before 10 p.m. the night before it is due, you are doing something wrong.

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To Love a Broken Vase — An Ode To Valentine's Day

"To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides." --David Viscott, How to Live with Another Person, 1974


I remember an anecdote my elementary school teacher told us in the fifth grade. When a mother is pregnant with a child, they feel comfortable in their flesh. Provided with everything they needed to survive, they don't have to worry about anything. It's not until after they are born and the umbilical chord is severed that they realized they were not good enough, and insecurities fester.

I went through a similar process when I was growing up. Contained within my family and books, I felt like I held the world in my hands. It was not until high school where I seriously sought out others for company and wanted to apply myself to the social universe. And I saw myself changing in not only my behaviors, but how I see myself within the world.

With working hard to get good grades, with trying to get my driver's license, and becoming a better person overall, I realized the process involved a lot more effort than I ever had expected. And I found myself unprepared for the slow drudgery of it all. While I once pushed through to get things done, now I find myself giving up on projects while coming up with new ones. I frequently turned to my laptop for solace, as it kept my fantasies alive, but it also stole time away from me.

These behaviors showed in my relationships: I found it hard to meet up with friends, and my parents started worrying about what would my future look like. With the latter, I've had multiple conflicts with them, with me asserting I wanted to be free from everything, including accountability. Of course, that perception was quite unrealistic — to love and be loved, as well as to succeed, there has to a tug to know when you're doing something wrong.


A year ago, I wrote an article about how I saw romantic love from somebody who has never been in a relationship. Many things still apply today — I'm better off working towards my educational and career goals than seeking out love, though with Valentine's Day, it still fascinates me on whether or not I could be loved from somebody else.

From what I've heard from others, they would be charmed by my intelligence and kindness, neither fulfilling the stereotype of a nerd nor the perfect angel. However, the naivete would also put someone off, and potentially puts them in danger. I also see myself as the spontaneous type, but to the point where I forget where my priorities are, again making them worse than they really are. I imagine they would be intrigued by me as a friend or a lover, but end up breaking away after a short amount of time.

I don't imagine finding myself loving other people in the short term; however, I find myself open towards others. And that what makes me more afraid about how people view me--will they not be able to see the positives in myself when the time comes? Will they be just as capable of forgiving me the same way my family does?

At the end, I should take my friend's advice for Valentine's Day — love oneself. And take actions to make sure that I can love myself deeper and further.

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