Happy New Year! It is that time of year again to make unrealistic, and sometimes even unachievable resolutions. Whether it be joining your local gym or cutting back on sweets everyone is preparing for a happier and healthier 2017. So why do we all go to the trouble to create these resolutions that we know, deep down inside, we will most likely abandon by the end of January? Why don't we make resolutions that will not only benefit ourselves, but those around us as well? For 2017, here are some new resolutions that we should all consider to have a happier and more positive world.
"Be kind to one another" -Ellen Degeneres
It's 2017 people. You would think by now that the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated, would be respected and encouraged. As an avid Ellen Show watcher and fan of the inspirational woman herself, I have a great appreciation for her famous line that she ends every show with and believe that more people should strive to start being nicer to others.
Start switching "I'm sorry" to "Thank you"
I came across this post on Facebook the other day, and it spoke volumes. Personally, I'm the kind of person who is constantly apologizing even if there is nothing I really have to apologize for. Having the positive mindset to say "thank you" more often than "I'm sorry" can make a difference in anyone's "new year new me" attitude.
Do something nice for someone
We all have so much free time on our hands to do things like tweet and snapchat. Opening a door for someone struggling with their bags, waiting that extra second to hold the door for someone walking behind you on a cold day, or you can even go above and beyond and volunteer some time at a food kitchen or homeless shelter.
Call your relatives
Anyone who has spent at least one semester at college will understand this resolution all too well. Yes, your grandparents do miss you and want to hear your voice. Your aunt who just sent you a nice care package or a card "just because" deserves more than a thank you text with some cute emojis.
"Be who you are and be that well" -St. Francis deSales
All DeSales students know this saying too well, it has even been engraved into our heads. I think this quote is important for anyone who wants to be more positive and truly exceed any expectations one has for oneself. Set the bar high and know that you were born for higher things. Do the things in your life that will make you happy and don't always look to make those around you happy. Sometimes it is ok to be a little selfish and put yourself first.
So for all of you still contemplating what your new year's resolutions should be, please consider these five to add to your list. Sure it would be great to actually join the gym and actually go every once in a while, but it can't hurt to do something realistic and positive for not only yourself but those who surround you every day.
