What You Should Know Before Dating A Strong-Willed Girl
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What You Should Know Before Dating A Strong-Willed Girl

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When most people hear the term "strong willed," the term head b***h in charge is usually somewhere around the corner in their brain. But, being labeled as a strong-willed kind of person doesn't make you a rude person, it can be the single best quality a person can have.

A strong-willed girl will know exactly what they want, and despite what others say, she is bound to get it one way or another. They are not the type of person that will sit back and watch opportunities pass by. They will go after what whatever it is because standing back and waiting for their opportunity to arise is not an option.

They're go-getters; people that live in the now, and don't waste time worrying about their past. That being said, she won't waste her breath on someone that has let them down before, but she will give anyone a first chance.

She doesn't play the waiting game because she lacks patience. In her world, it's always been about her, so having someone else to consider will be a big adjustment for someone who has never had to worry about someone other then themselves before. Be patient. It may get frustrating at times, but when she really cares for someone, she will do her absolute best to make that person the happiest they can.

She lives a fast-paced life, so be prepared to be on your toes. She will like to keep busy and have the feeling that what she is doing has a bigger purpose than what people may think. One moment you could be on couch watching a movie, and suddenly she'll say she is bored. Listen to that.

Being cooped up in the house all day will drive her crazy, so make sure you know the things she likes doing in order to keep her entertain. She still has that inner child in her that won't rest until you make them. If she likes traveling, plan a trip to somewhere neither of you have never been. It doesn't have to be something big even, it can be something as simple as a car ride but the fact that she'll notice you're trying will mean the world to her.

The biggest flaw some say a strong-willed girl has is her stubbornness, but where some people see a flaw others see a strength. You'll learn over time that arguing with her is pointless because she won't stop until they prove you wrong. She doesn't take no for an answer, which will probably make you frustrated at times.Just know that she doesn't mean to be that way, it's just how she is. Nothing against you, but sometimes you both may need to take a step back and relax before finishing the conversation.

Just because she is able to handle majority of situations by herself doesn't mean that she won't need you around to catch her when she falls on the occasion. Contrary to popular belief, she isn't always as strong as people make her out to be. She'll have her moments where all she wants is to curl up and cry it out until she feels better. Those are times you'll need to be there for her, for whatever ever she needs. Whether that's a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk too, she'll need you more then you know, because although she is fully capable of watching out for herself, it's easier when you have someone else watching out for you too.

The best thing you could possibly do for a girl like this is to one hundred percent straight with her. No lies, no games just honestly. This type of person is the best because you could sitting there talking about random things for hours on end and it will be the best conversation. She's more mature than what people will say, so your conversations will have more meaning and purpose behind them. Rather then asking what your favorite color is, she'll ask for your opinions on certain topics or where you see yourself in ten years. She can start a conversation out of nothing, by driving around and seeing a billboard that may spark a interest in her that can lead to the next two hours of you discussing what exactly the purpose of human life is.

She is one the best people to have in your life. But you won't know it at first, so when you get a girl this, keep this person close because they will be your best friend until the very end

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