For some reason or other, I always find myself single for Valentine’s Day. And I’m here to tell you why that’s perfectly OK.

You may hate Valentine’s Day. Maybe it’s because of heartbreak or a loss that you feel during this time of year. Maybe it’s because, like me, you have always been alone during this “Hallmark Holiday.” Perhaps seeing the hearts and the smattering of red and pink everywhere just makes you nauseous. But candy and cards isn’t all that Valentine’s Day is.

I’ve always had a love for Valentine’s Day. Yes, it’s a stupid made-up holiday in order sell more chocolates and diamonds. But for me, it’s about the celebration of love between friends. Saint Valentine himself did not care about being single, but rather united couples who could not marry without his help. His love was an unselfish love that we still celebrate today.

Here are some things to do if you find yourself single this Sunday.

1. Get Together.

If you find yourself alone this year, invite your best girlfriends for a night in. Yes, I sound like Leslie Knope, inviting you to her GALentine’s celebration, but I’m serious! Nothing makes a day better than spending it with the people you love the most.

2. Get Silly.

One year, I bought each of my friends a "big hunk" candy bar since they didn't have a big hunk of their own.

3. Get Creative.

Chances are, if you are alone this holiday, someone else is too. Why not just spread the spirit of the holiday? Buy some Valentine's Day cards meant for children and leave them on random cars. You never know who's day you may brighten.

4. and if all else fails...

Treat yourself to a night in, wine, chocolate, ice cream, and a movie appropriate to the holiday.