Deciding to transfer after my freshmen year of college was hard no doubt, but the uncertainty was more difficult. I was worried by ideas that it would be hard to fit in, meet friends, do well academically, and like the school overall. You ultimately want to make a decision that will benefit you in the future, but like all other big decisions - you're nervous.
The first few weeks at my new university were hard - I knew people from my high school and my roommates of course, but it still felt odd looking around the classroom and not recognizing anyone. I confused the faces of friends from my old school with strangers at my new one, got lost in buildings, and was exhausted overall.
Now, looking back at the complete year I can say that I made the right choice. While I miss my friends and memories from last year, I have found my niche here. The past year taught me an immense amount of things, many which I may not have learned otherwise. I am grateful to all those who encouraged me to do what I believed to be best and to my friends near and far who have never wavered.
Here are just some of the things I've learned during the last year:
Never compromise on your wants when it comes to education. If you think you need to be in a better program - you probably should be in a better program. If you want to add minor or major weigh your options and do what is best for your plan. When it comes to your education and future goals you should always strive for that which will prepare you and fulfill your needs.
Be friendly to everyone - even if you're not that type of person. Starting out at a new school is hard, you don't know many people and people don't really seem to be looking for more friends. You never know who will be in your major or even a group project with you. It's better to make small connections that can blossom into great ones.
Take pride in your coursework and everything attached to your name. Your new university is basically a blank page; you determine the reputation and "brand" that you will carry there. Introduce yourself to your teachers because you never know when one of them may be able to recommend you for a job or position.
Don't be afraid to ask for help on projects, papers, resumes, etc. Faculty and staff are there to help guide you through your integration into campus life. These people can give you priceless advice, and even turn into mentors.
Most importantly: academics are important, relationships are important, but friends are invaluable. Surround yourself with genuine people who care for your well-being and can guide you through your first year. These are the people who will likely turn out to be lifelong friends.
I am so appreciative of my new university and everything that it offers me. If you told me two years ago that the college I had my heart set on at graduation wasn't going to be my forever home - I would've laughed. It's hard to accept that plans change and that life can throw curveballs. It's how you react to those things that defines you.
To the person reading this who is thinking about transferring or feels uncertain: talk to somebody about it. Talk to yourself about it in the shower, call your parents, tell your best friends. You can't make this decision alone and you need help deciding what is best for you. Most importantly remember that you can do it - nothing is too far fetched or impossible.
