There are some people in the world who must hate their life and everything in it.
Those people are easy to see in a snowstorm. They are easier to see in broad daylight. They aren't hard to figure out. Those are the people who walk around with a scowl on their face, looking angry, pissed off, and acting like they hate the world. Those are the people who must hate their life and everything in it. And I have to honestly say, I feel sorry for anyone they encounter.
I spent seven months working for a woman just like that. She was one of the most hypocritical, angry, two-faced, pissed off person I'd ever met. She's also someone who you'd call a bully. A person who obviously hates her life hates herself, hates everything in her days, and can't get out of bed without having an attitude that the day is just going to plain suck, so she might as well screw it up for everyone else she encounters.
I'm sure you've met, worked for, lived near, or dealt with a person just like her. She's one of those who must hate their life and everything in it. And I'm here to tell you, I truly, honestly, from the bottom of my heart, feel sorry for those people. I have real sympathy for those people. I really hope one day they get over whatever is angering them, ruing their days, pissing them off, and making them hate the world. I mean that.
I am not the type of person who holds a grudge. I do not stay angry at people for a long period of time. But in this case, this is an exception. Some people must hate their life and everything in it to treat people the way she treats others.
She is mean, downright angry, verbally abusive, rude, inconsiderate, and just mean. Have I missed any words?
This person deals with some people in a friendly, "I'm going to laugh with you and be your friend" way, and others she treats like they are nothing more than a worthless piece of garbage. And it's those people that I truly feel sorry for.
There is no way they are happy inside. There is no way they are an enjoyable person to be around in their personal or social life. And there is just no way possible they are someone that people want to be a friend of.
I've encountered people like that in my life. They treat others with disrespect, they are inconsiderate and downright rude. The impression is, from the moment they wake up in the morning to the final minute of their day, they are pissed off, find things to complain about, find people to try to belittle, insult, and disrespect. And all it does is show that they are angry, miserable little people. And those are the people that must hate their life and everything in it.
They are also called bullies.
Have you ever imagined walking into a job where every single day, you worry what might be said, how you might be treated, who might disrespect you, who might verbally abuse you, or if you'll even have a job at the end of the day?
I have.
And it's not a pleasant situation to be in. It's dealing with an angry person full of hate. It's dealing with a person who will gladly stab you in the back and step on your face while you lie bleeding on the floor, dying in front of God and the world. And then she would walk away, look back, laugh, and most likely spit on your corpse. It's people that the world doesn't need. And it's a person like that who must hate their life and everything in it.
I worked for a person like that for seven months. Full of anger, full of hatred, full of disrespect, full of inconsiderate behavior - one of the most hypocritical, back-stabbing individuals I have ever met. Someone who would walk by starving children, and rather than try to help them out, would make a phone call, and talk to someone trying to figure out how to remove those kids from their families and put them with some strange person in a house in the middle of a neighborhood the kid has never seen in their life.
I've dealt with a person like this. Someone who will disrespect you and not blink twice. Someone who will insult you and not even breathe heavy doing it. Someone who will criticize you, cut you down, insult your work, degrade your personality, treat you like you are the most worthless animal in the world, and then talk about you behind your back.
And the minute you walk into this person's office, they will smile at you, talk to you like you are their friend (or maybe not), treat you like they respect you (or maybe not), and deep down, you know by looking at them they don't like you, don't want to talk to you, and think you're the biggest piece of shit on the planet.
The worst part about it? You walk out of their office wondering what in the world you ever did to make them so angry, to piss them off, and to make them hate you so much. But I'm here to tell you, you should stop bothering to get upset. Stop asking yourself that question. That person is the type who hates their life and everything in it.
The worst part about it? Imagine a person like that having a husband, a wife, children, grandchildren, or friends? Imagine a person like that having neighbors, parents in the schools their kids attend, or worse, coworkers that are forced to deal with them.
Try working for and reporting to someone like that. You know they woke up in the morning angry, hating their life, arguing with their spouse, mistreating their kids, and finding someone to treat like shit.
And they walked into the workplace, and you're left to deal with them all day. Every day. One day after the next. That person who is someone that hates their life, their world and everything in it. Kind of sad isn't it? Kind of pathetic isn't it? Kind of pitiful isn't it? And don't you feel kind of sorry for someone like that?
I can't. I used to. I actually did. But having worked for a person like that, dealing with a person like that, having to face a person like that, and having to answer to a person like that? I can pray for them. I can ask God to hopefully one day change their attitude, change their life, and make them a better person.
But as strong as my faith is in God, as powerful as I think He is? I sometimes doubt even God can change a hate-filled, angry, pissed off disturbed person like that who obviously is someone that hates their life and everything in it.
I call them mean. I call them bullies. I call them despicable. I call them pathetic. I call them pitiful. And I can call them a lot of other things. But one thing I call them is angry. I call them rude. I call them inconsiderate. And I call them evil. But the hardest part about it? Dealing with a person like that. Answering to a person like that. Having to face a person like that. I've been there and done it. I know what it's like. I wouldn't wish it on the world.
It's dealing with someone that hates their life and everything in it. And they use their position of power to control others, to shame others, to bully others, to mistreat others, to be inconsiderate to others. To be rude to others. To be verbally abusive to others. And get away with it as long as they are possibly able.
This article is dedicated to that person. It is a harsh word of reality. One day, you are going to piss off, cross, anger, verbally abuse, assault, or mistreat the wrong person. You are going to say the wrong thing. You are going to take out the anger on a person that doesn't deserve it. And they are going to tell the world how horrible you really are. And how pathetic you are. And how you are but one thing.
The person who hates their life and everything in it.
You are pitiful, pathetic and evil. And one day, I hope you cross someone that treats you just like you've treated others. Because I'm here to tell you, you'd deserve every damn thing you got from them.