ENFJ. Entraversion, Intuition, Feeling, Judgment. We are The Protagonist. This isn't a what we are kind of article. I want to share with you what it's like to be an ENFJ from my point of view. Not how this personality test defines me but how it allows me to be more in touch with the kind of person I was created to be.
The first thing that often is related with ENFJ is that they are natural born leaders. It'd be really easy for me to say that it connects with me immediately because I would consider myself a leader. I'm proud to say that I have the opportunity to lead others in different capacities. The problem though is that I've had a lot of difficulty when I'm in a constant leadership role. Constantly pouring out but not being poured into. Constant tiredness, and constant indecision too make tough decisions. I love being able to stand up for others but I often get lost in relationships and that can sometimes cause me to stumble.
Another thing that I often associate with myself that connects with my ENFJ personality is the Analytical mindset of my feelings. It's tough, because I, often, overthink a lot of things. Sometimes it's good if I really want to succeed at something, and sometimes it's bad because in things like dating relationships. Where I often will over think important decisions when I want to date other people.
Finally, the last thing that I personally connect with the most as an ENFJ is being authentic. I constantly tell myself that I want to be the best me that I can be and to be able to do that is to be authentic. Not being afraid to be myself even though that may turn people away. Being the person God made me on stage and off stage. And relentlessly loving people the best way I can.
What's your Myers-Briggs type and how can you understand it to where you can be the best you, you can be?
